Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Are You Ready to Fall in Love?


'Am I ready to fall in love?' After your promise of finishing your studies without involving yourself to any relationship, you are now asking yourself this question. You have no fear because you are not without suitors. In fact, one of them is already a prospective boyfriend. But, the feeling itself is not your measurement of your preparedness to fall in love. For you, commitment must also be considered right from the very start. In fact, it is what makes falling in love different from having a crush or infatuation. But, you want to make sure of your capacity to give your love to someone. Now, how would you know if you are ready to fall in love? Try to check yourself with this list:

If you think you are already capable of giving some of your time to a boyfriend, yes, you are ready to fall in love. A relationship requires time from each other to be able to become successful. In fact, time can break and make a relationship.

If you believe you are capable of submitting yourself to a person other than your family, relatives, and friends (not all the time, though), then you are prepared to be in love. If you are used to making your own decisions, then you should start making adjustments. Sometimes, you have to decide things according to your boyfriend's decision or according to both of your agreed resolution.

If you are willing to give your trust to someone, this means you are ready to fall in love. More often than not, relationships are challenged with temptations and jealousy. But, both of you will be able to overcome them all if you will only give your 100 percent trust to your partner.

If you believe that to love is to accept someone's shortcomings, yes, that is love. Acceptance of whoever he or she is means love. Bringing out the best in him or her is the key here.

If you are set to get hurt, then you are ready. Falling in love comes with breaking your heart. So, you have to be prepared for this. Anyway, in every hurt, there is always happiness coming. You need not worry. 

If you are capable of thinking of things for the good of your partner, then you are so ready to fall in love. You unconditional love can be a foundation that will make your relationship similar to an iron (it is hard to bend).

If you are willing to sacrifice, definitely, you are prepared to fall in love. Love involves sacrifices that have to be made even if they are against your will.

Falling in love means a lot of things other than saying "I love you". In fact, two people in love can make it their happy journey toward marriage. Trust, time, submission, acceptance, and open mindedness among others are essential requirements, though. If you have them, then you are ready. So, what are you waiting for? Get in love!




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