We all love going to parties, but many people find it a bit daunting breaking the ice with 10 new faces or more. Well fret no more, now there is a great way to meet your match at a party while having a lot of fun in the process. And who or rather what do we have to thank? Believe it or not the one and only Rubik's Cube.

Who would have thought - it couldn't be any simpler - a fancy dress party with a difference and all with a view to being able to easily chat to everyone at the party. That has got to give you better odds with finding someone you are really attracted to, than sticking to the 3 or 4 people you might otherwise feel comfortable with approaching. If you want a party with a difference and a great way to meet new people - Single or otherwise, try this out.

Inspired by the colors of the Rubik's Cube puzzle, you and your party guests have to dress from top to toe in 6 separate clothing items that represent the 6 colours of the Rubik's Cube. This bit's easy - make sure you have 6 items in the colours of Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue and White

But, there's more and this is where it gets to be a lot of fun and a great way to chat to new men and women. Throughout the party your mission is to trade your colored items, one at a time, with someone else until you are visible only in ONE color - that is - you have solved your Rubik's Cube/Person puzzle! Believe it or not, it is quite a difficult thing to achieve - but it sure is a great way to break the ice and find new friends and start relationships.

Tip 1: wear any other color item of clothing underneath these Rubik's Cube colors otherwise you might be asked to swap these too - unless it's that sort of party anyway!

Tip 2: if you are going to a BIG party, wear Rubik colored clothing items that you don't mind losing as you may not see the person you swapped your favorite sweater or hat with again!

Tip 3: Scour Op Shops or Charity shops for colorful items of clothing you could don for your next Rubik's Party.

Tip 4: If you go to a Rubik's SHI Symbol Party you'll definitely be invited to another one, because that's the way they work. So these 6 Rubik colours could be your answer to meeting a whole host of new people regularly. What better way of meeting that special person.

Tip 5: The Rubik's party works equally well for any type of party crowd whether it's a mixed crowd or one exclusively for Heterosexuals, Gays, or Lesbians only.Solve the Human Rubik's Cube puzzle and have yourself a great Party at the same time.

Enjoy!

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Attracting a new partner can be exciting for many, but dating often becomes a game of 'how should I act' or 'when should I call'. Within a short period of time, this can cause quite a bit of frustration. Since a relationship is a two way street, it pulls more on our hearts and emotions and has the ability to shape who we become, whether for good or bad. For greater clarity and ease, here are some techniques for attracting the kind of partner you really desire.

First of all, define what you want in a partner. This means looking at all the aspects of what you would like. It might help to make a list of the attributes or qualities you really want. As long as you feel good about what you're asking for, you're on target. However, if what you ask for begins to feel too defined, it is an indication that you have narrowed your desires too much. For example, you might prefer a partner who is medium height with medium to dark hair. You might even want this person be between certain ages, say 40-50 years old. However, if you say "and I want this person's name to be Madonna and sing", although you may meet several people, as you find that none of them are named Madonna and sing, you may start to feel you've been a little too selective. Therefore, define only as far as it feels comfortable.

Create an affirmation or statement that summarizes what you desire. For example: I want a wonderful, loving, healthy relationship with someone who is confident, funny, and shares many of my same interests. This will be extremely important to use if you feel yourself getting off track with what you said you wanted. Your affirmation will be your anchor as you remind yourself what you have asked for and what the Law of Attraction is bringing to you.

Reaffirm and visualize what you desire for 5-10 minutes before going to sleep every night. Really put feeling into your visualization as if what you have asked for has already shown up. Not only can this be fun, but it is a very powerful way of being in alignment and allowing the attraction to take place. Note, however, that this should not feel like a chore. Negative focus will not draw positive results.

Stay focused on what you say you really want. Throughout your day as you think about meeting, contacting, or calling someone, gently reaffirm what you asked for and then release any fear you have. Let the Law of Attraction handle the rest. You will be guided on what to do next. Not only can this strengthen what you asked for, but it takes you out of the way of the manifestation.

Be grateful for those who show up to help you define your desires further. Understand that when you ask for something, you often have to let go of what isn't working in your life in order to have what you've asked for. In other words, if you have a pattern within you that contradicts what you have asked for, it will need to be released in order for your good to come in. Here's an example: You've asked for a wonderful relationship but have a habit of thought that says 'I'm not worthy'. You begin dating but notice that your dates seem needy, have unrealistic expectations, or are not who they portrayed themselves to be. You hoped for cuddly bears, but instead, you keep getting prickly porcupines with issues. Geez!

Although these people seem totally unrelated to what you asked for, take note that every time you attract a person who emphasizes an issue you have (and you'll know this because it stirs up negative emotions in you), use it as an opportunity to more clearly define what you want. Do not allow yourself to move back into thinking you are not deserving. This only further reinforces your habit and will not allow what you have asked for to show up. Do not accept this as proof that the Law doesn't work, rather stay on track and know that the Law is working perfectly.

Be true to who you are and your desires. Do not give up who you are and what you want in order to please potential partners. This is always a bad start to any relationship. If being yourself turns somebody away from you, they weren't meant for you. It's too difficult to be who or what someone else wants you to be. Instead, as you stay true to being yourself, your confidence grows. There is such freedom in being in a relationship where you are loved for who you are. Give thanks and reaffirm that this is where you are heading.

And lastly, give thanks for every aspect of your desired relationship that shows up. If your date has some aspect or quality that you asked for, give thanks regardless of whether you continue to date that person or not. Really milk this part of the process. It is the recognition of any and all aspects of what is working that draws more to you.

Love is supposed to be fun and it can be when we intentionally use the Law of Attraction and allow what we desire to show up for us. Let go of the struggle. Release! Have fun and let the Law of Attraction bring you the loving, happy relationship you desire.

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Love dating is about getting to know each other in depth. It is therefore a process about exploration and discovery. But common sense and the norms of society dictate that there are certain things you can and can't do, or that you should avoid to ensure you have an enriching dating experience.

Among the first recommended don't is blabbing at work about someone who you are dating. This doesn't mean that you can't talk about the person to a few of your colleagues at work or to the person who sits beside you or in a neighboring cubicle. It may be unavoidable to not mention your date especially after a weekend when everyone usually starts off the work week by asking, "so, how was your weekend?" If you went out on a date during the weekend, well, it's fine to mention it.

What blabbing means, however, is that you shouldn't constantly, seemingly in a never ending way, be talking about your dating experience or your date to just about anyone and everyone. Your work colleagues shouldn't have the feeling that as soon as you open your mouth they will have to be subjected to hearing about what you did and where you went on your latest date, and what you think about the person.

It's even worse if the person whom you are dating is someone at work or within the same company that you work. Even if that person is in a different department or at a different site, it's best to maintain a high level of privacy about your dating relationship. Otherwise it is sure to become known to everyone, because even if the person is at another site, there is sure to be others who will have some contact with fellow workers at that site.

While you also should not blab about date, you also shouldn't be telling everyone about personal habits or ways of your date that you have learned about through seeing the person and going out. Personal relationships are just what they are - personal. So if you talk to just about anyone and tell them about the type of person your date is, tell them things that are known only to you, then you are violating the personal aspect of the dating relationship.

And just as important, or even more important, is disclosing private, personal information about your date. This includes for example, health, financial or family-related information that your date may have disclosed to you in confidence. And although some personal information such as one's address, phone number and email address is partially public, you also shouldn't give that information about your date to just anyone.

In relation to the person who you are dating, there also are things that will directly affect the individual that you shouldn't do. You shouldn't post a picture of the person anywhere on the Internet without their permission. You also shouldn't be inconsiderate and do things like calling your date at anytime, such as extremely late at night and very early in the morning. Night owl and early bird phone calls are very irritating and annoying, unless the person is on an irregular schedule and again, you have been told that's it okay to call at that time.

Another annoying thing that is not recommended is to be constantly bombarding your date's email mailbox by sending Internet fwd. messages and Internet jokes, humorous and other types of pictures, poems, letters of hope or of desperation with a request to pass it on to as many people as possible.

Messages that keep getting forwarded via the Internet simply clog up mailboxes and also carry the risk of having a destructive virus attached to them that can ruin your computer's hard drive and all your files. There are some people who like getting these messages. But again, unless your date has said he or she doesn't mind getting those messages, you shouldn't pass them on.

The above-mentioned don'ts for love dating should therefore be kept in mind / avoided. They aren't difficult to observe and you'll find that following them likely will enhance your dating experience and enrich the bond you are developing while dating.

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You can not say you want to save something if you cannot recognize that there is something wrong with it. You first and foremost have to see and recognize that something needs to be saved. In the same way, you cannot save a dating Relationship that you do not know what is wrong with it. Identify the problem and see what can be done about it. You and your partner can sit down and discuss the problems that you have that are gently but surely pushing you away from each other. You can also have a notebook and ask each other to write the things that you both do not like about each other that is making you fail in your dating Relationship. You do not have to write about the negatives. If you partner has some positives, be sure to highlight them. This will go a long way in helping you save your dating Relationship. You will be having an idea of what you are dealing with.

Do not be afraid to ask for help if you want to save your dating Relationship. Sometimes when we try to work things out all by ourselves we end up failing. Instead of us trying so hard to do things by ourselves we can ask for help from our trusted friends, and some family members. A problem shared is a problem half solved and this saying has some big factor of truth behind it. If you cannot trust your family or friend you can go visit a dating Relationship counselor and share with him or her about the things you think could be failing your dating Relationship. This way, you will be saving your dating Relationship from failing.

If you wrong your partner in a dating Relationship you should not hesitate to say sorry. You would be surprised how a little sorry can go a long way in saving a dating Relationship. Whenever you say sorry to your partner you tell them that you are remorseful, you care and that you did not mean it. As much as they might never forget what you did, there is always a need to apologize. Apologize from the bottom of your heart and say it like you really mean it. After you have made your apology, try not to repeat the same mistake. If you do, your partner might not take your sorry again and you might be telling your partner you were not sorry the first time and you will not be making any progress towards saving your dating Relationship.

It is always good to remind each other of what made you fall in love with each other in the first place. Talk about it and see what you used to do that you no longer do for each other that is making your dating Relationship fall apart. Its good to rekindle the love that you once shared and make each other fall in love again. This way, you will be sure to save your dating Relationship. Keep communication lines open because whenever there is a communication break down, things are bound to go wrong.

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Saying the words "I love you" is a cornerstone in any relationship, and also one of the most stressful. For most people, the act of saying those three words is so scary because they are afraid that the feeling will not be mutual. When it comes to love dating advice, one of the most frequently asked questions has to do with when it is safest to utter those three words to your partner.

I believe that the best time to say you love the other person is when you truly mean it. This is a very honest way to go about the relationship, and it lets your partner know how you feel as soon as you feel it. Chances are, they might have been fretting over saying the words as well, and they might be relieved to hear you say it first.

So, what if they don't say it back? If they don't, it is likely because they are either surprised, or because they don't love you just yet. This is totally okay, as different people will arrive to the same location in a relationship at different times. Try not to be hurt if you don't hear those three words in return. Instead, take it in stride and give the relationship more time.

The best love dating advice I can give you is that there is no single "right" time to tell someone you love them, but the average is usually a few months depending on how much time you have spent together.

By following the love dating advice above, you can set yourself up so that you are not disappointed if you don't hear those words back from the one you love. Just remember not to be hurt about it and to give them more time to love you back.

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I think the greatest aspect of our life is to find, sustain, grow and embrace a gratifying outcome of our dating relationship. We have a gift to embrace and express deep emotions of love. A gift that so many of us take it granted. We let it slip away from us and inevitably causing our dating relationship to die away. We need to recapture that feeling and not take it for granted as we continue our journey toward the meaning of true love.

Here are some ways to start and keep your dating relationship alive:

Define who you are and define what you want. Not knowing you and not knowing what you want will never maintain your dating relationship. As we look for love, we tend to get what comes our way. Don't settle for less. It's important that you know what you want. Knowing exactly what you want-values, interests, things you can tolerate will start your relationship steady and healthy.

Learn how to control disagreement. Always avoiding conflict will bring any dating relationship to an end. You avoid any conflict to make the relationship work but it will not. Avoiding conflict will build so much resentment that soon; it will explode to a definite break up. Learn to disagree in a fair manner. Understand there are two sides of any disagreement.

Speak with passion. Relationship is built around genuineness. Sometimes we need to voice our opinion with great passion. This will show that you care very much. Your partner will understand and respond with passion. Say what's on your mind.

Be responsible for your actions. When you make a mistake, don't blow it off. Don't make up any excuses. When you do something wrong, simply apologize. When your partner does something special, always express your appreciation. Being responsible both ways will certainly embrace your dating relationship.

Don't be a loner. Don't feel like you can do whatever you want in a relationship without talking with your partner. This is one of the greatest mistakes made in a dating relationship. Discuss what you want to do. Maybe your partner might offer a better idea.

Get outside help if needed. If your relationship is in trouble, do not hesitate to get help. Many times friends and significant others can see the problem. Since they are not in your relationship, they tend not to be bias. Listen to them. Most time than not, they will certainly give you some great insight.

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Much like most other dating simulation games, the main target audience for these types of games is young girls. Your ultimate goal is to build a relationship with a partner you might fancy in hopes to make them your boyfriend (or girlfriend).

The main difference I admired about Love Dating Sim For Girls is that you are able to have a same-sex relationship with another woman. It is one of the few games I've seen that allows you to have an open gay relationship. The only other game I know that did this is RPG game, Mass Effect.

As aforementioned, your ultimate goal is to land yourself a boyfriend and/or girlfriend at the end of the game. You only have 30 days to build a strong enough connection to your potential partner to be. Talking to them at first and getting to know them is the best way for you to build a relationship. It's advisable that you only talk to one person at a time. You don't want to be two-timing or else you partner will think you're cheating on them! Although you are able to do this if you really wanted to.

Unlike other dating sim games I've played in the past, this one you have to pay attention to the person you're talking to earn their trust. Sometimes I forget what they're saying so I was unable to gain that person's trust. Luckily for me, you can earn their trust by other means. The easiest way to do this is by purchasing gifts for your potential partner to be.

The only thing I did not like about the game is it can be quite repetitive. Going through each day just talking to a guy (or girl) can be very boring at times. Thankfully the graphics and animations are bright so it does help excite things.

Love Dating Sim For Girls may not be the most groundbreaking video game I've ever played, but the ability for you to have a same sex relationship in the game is a good thing. There aren't too many games I've played that uses gay characters in a normal way. Most games (and other media) use gay characters as a source of humiliation and ridicule. This is a good step in the right direction if gay people are to be accepted in normal society. Let's hope future games being made use this as an example.

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Do you seem to keep losing pretty good guys in your dating relationships? You thought your boyfriend was really into you and now you are not so sure. He seems to be putting you in a dating deep freeze. Before you know it, he has told you "it's over." What went wrong? Well, there may be a number of reasons. But if this situation has been happening to you again and again, it's probably that YOU have been doing something to kill your relationships. If you think  that boyfriend of yours is just your cup of tea, stop wondering what happened to the his/her togetherness of you as a couple and learn what to do to save your relationship before it is too late!

Killer Mistake 1

Dating a Jerk

Ask yourself, what is this relationship about? Is this man treating you right? Or is he treating you just as badly as all the other jerks you've dated in the past. Hmmm... There may be a pattern here. Maybe you are tending to go after the same kind of man each time! If so, it's time to stop and, when it comes to looking for Mr. Right, doing things DIFFERENTLY to the way you've done them in the past. Don't walk around like he has cast some sort of love spell on you. Snap out of it and see clearly what is going on.

Killer Mistake 2

Too Often Reminding Him That You Love Him

Have you been seeing him for a few months and feel like it's time to reveal your true feelings to him? It's okay to tell him that you love him. Hopefully he will say the same thing to you. But, regardless of whether he does or doesn't, try not to let the "flood gates" open and remind him that you love him over and over again. It will probably drive him mad... as well as place too many expectations on him. If he starts thinking that you are too needy... he may well decide that you're not worth being with.

Well, if the signs are there that he is losing interest in you, let that be a wake up call. If you've been doing any of these things... it's time to stop! Don't let stinking thinking or other issues rob you of your wants and needs in any dating relationship. Keep your boyfriend with you and happy before he becomes your ex boyfriend.

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Dating relationship tips and tricks are in plentiful supply all over the place and especially on the Internet but many are stale and no longer work as well as in the past. However, there are a few that have stood the test of time and if you are seriously looking for effective ways to seduce the women of your dreams, read on and be instantly successful when you finally put them into practice. You will be pleasantly surprise in the results you get.

Entice her into a few games

Men love to complete with men, but when they get their women into the competition the result is stupendous. You have probably played several bedroom games before, but taking the competition outside will lift your dating relationship to a new level. In fact women love to be at par with men, and these games often raise the sexual anxiety in them. When you carry it home, it could last even longer than you had expected. So do sign up the two of you for a pub trivia night out or even for an adventure race. It doesn't matter if you are on the same team; just give her a chance to get into a competitive edge which will get her dopamine levels all up.

Give her a hot massage

Dating relationship tips and even research proves that a nice scintillating massage helps release vital hormones and also works at increasing arousal. All you will need to do is give her a nice massage starting from her lower spine moving slowly towards the neck and shoulder. It is guaranteed that by the time you reach destination zone you would have gotten your women into the mood since by now her oxytocin levels should be at topmost force. If you are lucky enough, it could even be sooner than expected.

Candle light dinner

You will need to prepare this well in advance. After all you do not want to slog over the stove when your date is in your home. Bring out the sensuality in her, light the room with sweet scented candles, play some soft beautiful music that both of you love and chill some champagne. Although you may have fantasies built up in your mind through the day, it is important that you take it slowly here. Pop open the champagne, get a few aphrodisiacs as starters. Better still include them in your dinner, give her your ear when she talks, and hold her hand. Dance a little and by this time she probably wants to rip your clothes apart. But this dating relationship tip requires you to be patient and all your effort and preparation will bear fruits.

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A successful dating relationship depends a lot on finding the right kind of a partner. It is impossible to understand the character or behavior patterns of a person even after years of interaction, let alone at the first glance. Therefore, to start a successful relationship you need tremendous patience, communication, and open mindedness. You can have a successful relationship by taking some precautions and by following some practical guidelines.

Let your past help your future

Face it we have all had past relationships that may have started well enough but didn't end so well, and for those of you who have had success the first time out congratulations and well done, but for the rest of us this hasn't been the case so let your past help you with your future. Look back and what did and didn't work in your previous relationships, that means not just looking at your partners but also at yourself because face it we weren't saints either. I am sure you have all heard the term baggage as it refers to relationships so lets open that luggage and unpack it already. Past experiences are wonderful learning tools for future endeavors in the dating arena. I believe that my current relationships is working so well because I took a long look at what worked and didn't work for me in the past and made sure what didn't, didn't come with me.

Communication, open your mouth and let it out

Dating is a lot like ordering from a menu at a restaurant after all you wouldn't just go out to dinner and tell the waiter bring me what you like now would you Dating is much the same way, we expect our partners to just instinctively know what it is we want or need, to anticipate everything as it pertains to us. This is a complete and utter falsehood, they have no clue what we want or need this is why it is so important to put being shy and fearful aside and verbalize what works and doesn't work for you, what you want and what you need from them for you to have a happy, healthy and successful partnership. I was very clear with my partner in our first conversation about who I was, what I was looking for, what I needed from a partner, yes it was difficult to be that honest but I don't regret it at all because I had nothing to loose in the first place and well we have a great relationship today and we continue to check in with each other about what works and doesn't work for us.

Don't loose yourself

Lastly but most importantly don't loose your identity in your relationship, do not become what you think your partner wants you to be in order for he or she to be with you. After all it was you being you that attracted them to you in the first place so please don't forget that. I see so many of my friends give up who they are, give up their autonomy and become what they think their partners want, if you have to do that for someone you think you love, then it isn't love it is you fading into the wallpaper and allowing your needs to go unmet in order to have what you think is love.

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Life holds many rewards for the people that live it. One of the biggest and well-accepted rewards is the reward of companionship. While it is a great reward, it is also a great point of conflict, contention and confusion as many have seen. The ideas and expectations on those involved confuse the participants at times. However, individual hearts seek a strong, purpose-driven dating situation that will last and fulfill the need and desire for love and joy. Purpose-driven dating is actually both possible and accessible for those of us who are willing to take the chance, and who want to find a relationship that lasts.

It is important to lay the foundation first, as a way to both find and maintain a lasting mature relationship with a mate. This helps create a dating relationship that is purpose-driven and thereby intentional, as opposed to a relationship that is the passive byproduct of taking it easy just to see how it goes. Sacrifice is the main ingredient of the success of a purpose-driven relationship. When it is understood that sacrifice for the loved one is the element that adds character to the relationship, the relationship takes form and function.

Dating with a purpose actually wins ones dates heart and respect. The value and merit of the mate and the respect that one earns is increased when there's purpose to the dating. By following basic principals during dating such as sacrifice, you can allow deeper meaning to develop in a relationship. Sacrifice here means to give up your desires and joys and temporary needs to be there for your partner, to take the time to nurture your partner.

Another principal element in the success of a purpose-driven relationship is honor. You must establish honor within the relationship this allows your mate to trust you and further open up to the dating relationship. Giving of honor in the relationships helps those involved to understand that what you have is not a common or normal dating relationship it is dating with a purpose, dating towards a specific end.

Last but not the least, you need to understand pairing of visions, dreams and desires in life. In order to establish an honest purpose-driven dating relationship and trust is connection, the responsibility and credibility connectivity, accountability and credibility, it is necessary that both people bear similar intentions and visions for life. By doing this, you can allow the relationship to take precedence over either of you. The relationship and its survival and success become a common goal towards which you both work.

When you decide on a common goal, it allows both of you to look at the goal with purpose, as opposed to looking at each others individual needs. It allows you both to look towards each other for strength, inspiration, counsel and hindsight. It helps avoid the negative things that pull down your relationship, such as blame, negativity, distrust and grudges.

If you follow a set of standard principles and agree on mutual goals and visions, you will have a safe way of ensuring a lasting, deep and meaningful purpose-driven relationship with each other.

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Without a doubt, communication can be the make-or-break factor for a dating relationship. Often, two people who seem perfect for each other at first can't make their relationship last because they are unable to really talk to each other and share their feelings. The following tips will help you work on communication skills and break down barriers to healthy communication.

Make your conversations balanced. Whether you are extremely happy, angry, or sad, there may be times when you feel like you could talk for hours without stopping. There is nothing wrong with talking for hours, but effective communication requires that both people be involved every step of the way. Every few minutes, take a break and ask "What do you think?" or "How does that make you feel?" Sometimes, it doesn't hurt to think of your dating relationship like a court room: each side presents their case, reacts to the other side, and then sums up their position. It's not the most romantic analogy, but it can help you communicate better.

Reflect what your partner is saying. Building a solid dating relationship is all about understanding each other, and the way you communicate has a lot to do with that. After your significant other has expressed their thoughts, beliefs, or feelings, don't just assume you understand what they mean. Use reflective language to confirm that you have heard and comprehended everything correctly. Say "From your perspective..." before contributing your opinion. If you both start operating off from assumptions instead of facts, your conversations can spiral out of control and leave you feeling frustrated and misunderstood.

Don't respond to yelling with more yelling. If a dating relationship continues for long enough, it is undeniable that some problems will arise and someone will get angry. While yelling is not the most effective way to communicate, it is sometimes helpful to blow off steam. The most important thing to remember is that when your partner is yelling, you need to respond calmly and firmly. As long as you don't feel threatened, it is ok to let them raise their voice for a while.

Then, calmly say "We can discuss this when you lower your voice." Your partner will likely be surprised by your level-headedness and realize that they are being irrational.

Talk about the good things. It is easy to think about communication skills while having big, serious conversations about the future of your dating relationship. Don't be afraid to talk about the small, happier things, though. Tell your partner you love them. Remind them of your favorite date. Explain the article you just read. These little instances are perfect times to practice your communication and grow closer.

Learning to communicate effectively and honestly can be one of the hardest parts of creating a healthy and happy relationship. Being intentional about sharing, listening, and understanding can be the first steps toward unlocking the power of communication for you and your love.

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In the real world in our society today, the need to fall in love and begin dating relationships that will fulfill the void for lasting love within us is very rife in us. This comes after an anticipation of the fact that all will be right and every date we go to will surely be the one that will bring that 'someone' into our lives. These thoughts and behaviors are strengthened by overlooking the gut feelings which seem to suggest that the individual might be far from the one that our hearts are craving for, since you might be unhappy in being all alone in the world, devoid of the better half. One might also enter into the world of dating relationships due to the urge of involvement with a significant someone and at least say he/she have someone in his/her life.

This need to be in a relationship might be brought about by those expectations that one has placed upon the facet of age as well as on other indicators which are there for marriage purposes. Other motivators might be that you also would like to also try what most of your friends have been doing, and a desire for that lifestyle which a family setting or marriage brings forth. Engaging into a dating relationship might be as result of all these factors or even just one of them.

Being very hopeful and positive about a novel person in ones life is quite natural and healthy. It is only when you have let in a sense of urgency that you expose yourself into patterns of problems. In essence, many individuals must realize that healthy relationships have a way of taking time and being improved by the passage of time. Time means you get to know the other person well and it is the best thing that can ever happen to a person, since you already know what you are getting into.

Healthier dating relationships that are bound to take the next step into the labyrinth of matrimony require people who are right with their relationship status and the place they are in time. In addition, these kinds of relationships also call for stable environment which allow growth and nurturing plus allowance of time for eventual growth.

Being OK and contented with your status quo does not mean that you are happy or you will be happy about singlehood. It simply means being happy in general, a person whom people can easily refer to as a happy man or woman. This definition in the line of dating relationships can be equated in the context of adequacy, in terms of being satisfied with oneself, up to what one has achieved.

In this line, one can enquire from his heart and want whether he/she has a good support system from his/her society and whether their professional lives are full of satisfaction. In essence, one can also decipher from his life whether he/she uses his free time for the pursuit of passions of special interest or not. In this breath, the best question to ask yourself will be whether you are feeling good about you as a person and what you stand for in general.

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In life, there is that element in your character that just pulls the other person with whom your dating relationships are pegged upon, a magnetic attraction that can scare the hell out of Einstein, were he to study the power this kind of field could edify. It is that thing you said or you did, or just something that you are, which makes the person with home your life seems to be intertwined awestruck, somewhere along the line of reason.

The good thing is that in your dating relationships, you could manage to create this kind of effect that transcends efforts of trying to woo her through drawing her attraction every step of the way. It is something grand that will draw the attention of people, third parties who will recognize it without much effort. It is something that will make them talk of you having something 'going' on.

The thing in dating relationships that could help you set right the stage is this early communication which will give you an advantage within the ensuing love drama that you would have started, this time not in the silver screen but in the labyrinth of your life, within your schemes of your romantic nature.

In online dating, you will discover that dating relationships are given the best home advantage and the highest odds for it to mutate into something big. It is a fact that you can easily send bouquets of immaculate flowers and luscious love letters that are enough to make hallmark part with a fortune, but don't forget that there can never be any comparison with the immeasurable power which comes with the advantage of a meeting offline or face to face. Face to face brews that first time chemistry in dating relationships as the romantic relationships begins to take shape. Diversity is a real advantage which is perfected by a little creativity on your part.

Early communications when used in the advent of dating relationships will help you in setting your romantic stage, which is the systematic growth medicine for your relationship and bigger things that will follow suit. These kinds of conversations are mired around discovery, in finding that which the date is really interested, those likes and eventual dislikes they have, which includes those specific places they are looking forward to visiting.

Dating relationships have never come better than this, and it will really help you in cranking up that unfathomable wow factor. In online dating, instant histories of messaging and sending of e-mails comes as the perfect source that you could turn your attention to, once you find it hard to remember that which has been said. Pay attention to those things your date has been highlighting in your conversations, from ice cream, favorite color, book or even television talk shows.

Do not be fooled, the ability to awestruck your date does not come easily and naturally, it does take some sort of planning, and even some thoughtfulness. It is all about desire and the commitment you depict as your goal.

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Have you heard the latest? Probably, you do! Maybe you've got interested with online dating too. Well, its because of the fun being brought by it. This sounds great, right? However, there are things that you must watch over carefully once you decide to enter the exciting world of online dating.

Actually, there are only two important things that you must carefully watch over or take care of, if you join online dating. It's gonna be you and your personal computer. Why? You will be using a computer so it will be prone to virus or malwares as you go to the internet. This might interrupt you as you do your online search of love. That's why you have to use an anti-virus and guard your computer's firewall. Of course, you are going to protect yourself too by patronizing a good dating site that will help you search for online partner. Just like, when your friends trust Cebuanas.com or Africadarlings.com to help them find true love, then you can follow them. You only have to trust a dating site that have been trusted by people you know. At least you will be aware of terms and conditions of the site. You can be sure that it's a safe place.

Right now, you are ready to experience the successful online dating relationship. So let it grow by spending time with your mate. It will make the relationship flourish. You should remember that a good communication is the best ingredient of every relationship. In that way things will be okay for both of you. Respect for each other will help the online relationship grow healthy too. Until such time that you will decide that it will be the right time for meeting each other.

So let your online relationship grow healthy by nurturing it with good communication, respect, love and care.

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Is it possible to engage in romance relationships outside wedlock? It is considered taboo, but how ironical. Many "happily married couples" are busy in dating relationships with one or several partners without the knowledge of their spouses. Affairs outside marriage relationships are generally frowned upon by the very same people who are in the practice. Talk of an ostrich burying it's head in the sand. Relationships outside marriage are a reality and they are with us. What prompts a person to leave the precincts of holy matrimony and venture into the unknown? Does it mean the pastures are greener outside there? Or have the pastures at home become unpalatable? Relationships are complex institutions and the marriage institution is no better. A marriage is full of Waterloos and if you miss one you are bound to encounter another. You tread with a lot of care and caution.

The sweetness of stolen waters is legendary. Otherwise why would a self respecting person who has a partner in a marriage union have romance relationships on the periphery? The fear of being caught or discovered by your partner while making love with another person is nerve raking. It makes the body to be highly alert. To be precise, the body is ready for flight. The whole body is drenched in adrenaline. This only serves to fuel sexual excitement in a person. The more the adrenaline the more sexual hormones are released. Sexual excitement, desire and urge surges to unprecedented levels. Sex at this juncture is just overwhelming, simply unbelievable. Not to be compared to the routine sex in marriage relationships. Sex in such dating relationships hardly fades from your memory. A journey through the path of sexual healing. No wonder it is so sweet to stray.

Unfulfilled expectations inside the marriage relationships is what makes many couples to search for better fodder. Relationships are mind games and you have to be at the top of the game at all times. If you fail to control the game well, it goes out of hand. Your partner must feel loved and appreciated. Make them feel that they are special to you and they mean a whole world to you. Always keep fueling their interest or someone else will catch their interest. If there is no romance they will look for romance relationships. If you do not keep re-inventing your relationship with new innovative things to keep the fire burning, they will be tempted to start new dating relationships. Be a person of surprise and mystery and your partner will always be hanging by your every word. Wondering which type of hat trick you are trying to cook this time.

In spite of all this, the bedroom remains the all time marriage relationships spoiler. The bedroom is the fireworks theater where all the passions are consummated. The highest levels of intimacy are expressed here. Lack of enough fire in the bedroom marks the beginning of romance relationships and other dating relationships as couples try to escape the coldness in the marital bedroom. In their quest to re-ignite their sex lives, they stray into strange beds which offer them sexual experiences that were lacking previously in the bedroom.

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Are you ready for a loving, committed relationship with the right guy? Are you confused by the signals your guy sends? Because of past relationships, are you hesitant to trust your feelings? Do you wonder if a committed relationship is in your future? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you can have a loving, committed, relationship and you can know if he is ready.

A loving, committed, relationship is every girl's desire; however, confusing signals, hurts from past relationships, or not trusting your feelings, can contribute to wondering if the guy you are dating is sincerely ready for a relationship. Following are ways to know he is ready for a loving, committed relationship.

Intimate details: No, not does he share with the guy's things he shouldn't, I mean, does he share his personal thoughts and feelings with you? A guy who is ready for a long term relationship will open up and share his thoughts, goals, and experiences. It may not be on the first date, but over time you will begin to see what he is all about. Guys who are in it for "fun" will not be as willing to share their feelings.

Long range plans: A guy who is interested in a relationship will not only plan, but commit to long terms engagements. It may be dinner with friends coming to town for a visit, a social event several months away, or meeting someone at the beach for a weekend get-a-way. If he is seeking long term, he will not be afraid to commit weeks, or even months in advance.

Meet the family: This is a huge test for a relationship. Meeting parents and family is stressful. A guy who is ready for a relationship will do a couple of things. First, he will put his best foot forward for the occasion. Not necessarily coat and tie, but nice slacks and shirt, he will dress to impress. Second, he will take time to ask questions about your family. Are there topics he should avoid, or does your family have certain beliefs he needs to respect. He will do everything he can to make the evening enjoyable for you, your family, and lastly himself.

These are just a few ways to know a guy is ready for long term. When he is ready, he will discuss his life with you and make you feel a part of it. He will make long term plans that include you and he will be willing to meet family and friends. You can have a loving, committed, relationship, and you can know if he is ready.

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Are you one of the people in the world that believe in soul mates? Do you feel as if you have met "The ONE?" Have you experienced the all too familiar butterflies in your stomach when you are around that special someone, and struggle to concentrate on anything besides time spent with them? If this describes you, my guess is, you may be considering marriage.

For those of you that are so caught up with the love bug that you are considering marriage, you may want to consider a couple of points before taking that stroll down the aisle. There are several things to think about when making a decision to tie the knot (besides the butterflies you experience).

When we are in love, we tend to function as someone that is intoxicated. That is, we don't always make our best decisions while in the intense romantic phase of a relationship. When I say we are intoxicated, I mean that in a literal sense. Being in love actually causes our bodies to produce hormones that have the same affects as some drugs have on us. Phenylethylamine (PEA) is a hormone produced in the brain during the early stages of love. It gives off a dose of Dopamine, which makes you feel high when you experience falling in love. I said all this just to say, decisions about marriage should probably be made when you are a little more stable in your thinking and have dated long enough to be annoyed by one another.

The stage where PEA is most dominate, usually lasts anywhere from two weeks to two years. This is why it is important (in my opinion) to spend time focusing on getting to know your love interest instead of going to the movies and, well, making out. I often encourage couples to have a list of characteristics they want in a mate and establish which ones are must haves. Now obviously no one will find someone that meets all of their criteria. I am not encouraging a list that consists of million dollar incomes and fast cars. However, I do think people should identify areas such as spiritual beliefs, and the number of children you would like to have. Does he/she have the ability to establish a stable household according to their current lifestyle? What are their basic life values? What is their basic view about marriage and family? What are their short and long term goals?

These questions are very important aspects of living a productive life with someone else. Unfortunately, love and lust doesn't always lend us a hand in getting all the facts about a possible mate. Often times we are more concerned about how great they look in a pair of jeans, and how expensive the meal was that they provided on the last date. I often tell marriage hopefuls to attempt to date at least a year before making the announcement of an engagement. The word dating comes from the Latin word data. The definition of data is- Factual information, especially information organized for analysis or used to reason or make decisions (American Heritage Dictionary). Your dating relationship should be just that, a time to collect information about a possible mate.

I also want to stress that I am not saying that you need to wait for someone who is flawless and perfect because you will be waiting a life time. Keep in mind that no one is perfect and we are all a work in progress. However, you should have an idea of what you truly desire in a mate and search for someone that comes close to your list. It is also important to understand that you should work at living according to the standard that you set for others. If you make it a priority for your mate to be clean and organized, you may want to make sure you have that quality yourself. Despite what people say, opposites usually do not attract. We tend to gravitate towards people that are like us or people that we want to be like.

So the next time you plan a hot exciting date, remember to take note of the more important aspects of dating. Love is very exciting and weddings are great to attend, but no one enjoys a disconnected relationship or a broken up family. Try to establish time to date according to the true definition of dating and make love last.

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Do you feel you missed out on the lessons about men, love and relationships? Have you had a succession of relationship that just left you feeling hopeless about the prospect of beginning another one? Do you just want to quit the dating scene and find a good man to share your life with?

First off, start by knowing what you really want in a man. Too many women see a man they find physically appealing then ignore the fact that he's not really the man who will make her happy. Be honest in your assessment. Also, be open to the notion that the man of your dreams may not look exactly as you've always imagined.

Just as you don't want to be appraised simply by your looks, don't turn down a guy just because he didn't jump out of a GQ magazine. You may be surprised by the outcome.

Once you find that man, forget about marriage, commitments and a long term relationship. With these notions in your head, you're apt to put pressure on yourself and then put that pressure on him. The whole 'this has to go somewhere' attitude can be very detrimental to a relationship.

Consider those few dates like going out with a friend. So what would you do with a friend for whom you have no expectations? You'd have fun, talk about common interests, make each other laugh and just let your hair down and have a good time. Without the weight of a commitment hanging over both your heads, you can just relax and have fun.

Included in this budding friendship is a lack of sex. Yep. Sex may be the way to go when you're looking for a quick night of fun, but if you want more, you have to up the ante and be willing to show him you have more to offer. Unfortunately, when women put sex up front, the guy then rarely takes the time to look further and the relationship stagnates in the bedroom.

Have confidence in your ability to be a complete woman. You know that you're more than just your sexual qualities. So let him see your intellectual side, your adventurous nature or you wild adrenaline junkie side. He should be aware of everything you have to offer.

Are you in a hurry? Don't be. This is not the time to rush. The real secret to men, love and relationships is constantly being aware of what the guy is feeling. Ask yourself at the end of a date, did he have so much fun with you that he's walking away eager to see you again, or did you hassle him so much that he'll be reluctant to call again.

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Dating can be an enriching and fun experience - with the right person. Dating can help you grow personally and expose you to different people and different ideas. However, there are toxic people out there and they can draw you into a dating disaster if you are not careful.

It is important to know what red flags you should look for so that you can make educated, balanced decisions regarding the people with whom you interact. It isn't so difficult to have a healthy dating relationship as long as you know when to stick around - and when to bail.

There are probably hundreds of "red flags" that tell you to get the heck out of Dodge, but these are some standard cues that you could be headed for a dating disaster.

1. Your date interrupts you or talks too much.

Well, you know just about everything about YOUR DATE, but you can't get a word in edgewise. When you do start to talk, you are interrupted so that your date can tell you more about themselves. Does this person want to know anything about YOU? If the answer is "No", then move on.

2. Your date won't make eye contact.

Your date looks at everything around them - except you. They can't or won't make eye contact. They are likely hiding something, or they aren't telling you the truth. If your date is evasive with his or her eyes, they will likely be evasive with their honesty.

3. Your date gets way too serious way too early.

Your date is in love - with you - and this is your first date. Scary. If they get very serious very early, talking about an exclusive relationship or, Heaven forbid, marriage, you should watch out. You could be headed for a clingy, needy control freak. It's easy to get swept up and flattered, but be careful and keep your head about you. Don't get caught up in the romance, it very likely is not real.

4. Your date has bad manners.

If your date has poor manners such as interrupting people while talking, walking ahead of you, eats non finger food with their hands or talks down to you then they may not be good dating material. It won't get better if you embark on a relationship, it will only get worse.

5. Your date is not dressed appropriately for the date.

You have a lovely evening planned. You and your date will enjoy dinner at a fine restaurant, then an evening at the symphony. But your date shows up in a t-shirt and jeans, hardly fine dining and symphony material. A healthy dating relationship means, at the very least, having the decency and respect to you to be neat and clean.

6. Your date is rude or condescending to service staff.

Your date seems so nice - until the waitress comes to take your order. Then your "nice" date turns into a snotty, arrogant pig, talking down to the waitress, snapping at the bus boy. This is a huge red flag. If your date is rude or condescending to service staff that is an indication that they are arrogant and look down on others. Do you really want to be with someone who thinks that they are better than everyone else?

7. Your date gets sexual way too early.

If your date is trying to stick their tongue down your throat within minutes of meeting you or tells you in explicit detail what they would like to do with you, it may be time to back away, especially if this is all on the first (or even second) date. If you spend your entire evening fending off groping and suggestive comments from your date, you need to drop them. This person is interested in only one thing and it isn't you, it is your body.

8. Your date is very negative.

Your date spends the evening making broad generalizations about the nature of people, women, men or anything. Life is horrible for them, everyone is against them and the future is bleak. This person will be a real downer for you and eventually they will drag you down into their doldrums with them. After all, misery loves company.

9. Your date is paranoid.

Your date reveals to you that they know the government reads everyone's email and listens to every phone call. Big Brother is watching and the major corporations are manipulating the consumers with mind control. This person has a conspiracy theory for just about everything. Ditch this person or you will always be looking over your shoulder.

10. Your date complains or obsesses over past relationships.

Watch the person who can not let go of the past or who focuses on bad relationship stories. This person has an axe to grind and likely has problems with the opposite sex and guess what, YOU are next on their list. Don't fall into the trap of being the one to show this person that there are quality people out there. Let that be someone else's job while you focus on a healthy dating relationship elsewhere.

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It is what every person aspires to have, a healthy dating relationship. It is much sought after by many dating couples. It is their dream to have a model of a relationship. Unfortunately, it is so elusive to the extent that many relationships have turned into casual affairs that lack enough commitment. A healthy dating relationship relies mostly on the concept of giving.

Be a person who is always willing to give instead of expecting to be given. Do not have limitations in giving, give out generously and your rewards will be abundant. Giving in this case is not material but learning to love your partner and express it in every possible means and ways. Even the holy book says that if you give handsomely you will be rewarded in equal measure. A relationship that is based on love is like a house built on a rock, it can weather any storm.

People in a healthy relationship should be able to derive fulfillment and contentment from it. A person's emotional and physical needs ought to be met by the relationship. The relationship becomes like a spring where your thirst can be quenched. When a relationship is healthy you will feel it. You feel you are so deep into your partner that you live for this relationship. You feel things can never be the same again if at all it was curtailed. You live for it, it is your everything. It forms your dreams during the night and you day dream about it during the day. All these are manifestations of a deep fulfillment; a contentment that envelopes your heart with such a good feeling making you realize that you are in a healthy relationship.

A relationship is not always a bed of roses as many people tend to believe. Sometimes it is rocked by infighting and division. We are all human beings and we are all deficient in our own small ways. We are bound to disagree in one way or another at one time or another. Such differences are an indicator of good health in a relationship. Otherwise if everything was so smooth, you would become worn out with monotony. You might actually lack something to talk about. Sometimes you feel closer to your partner after a quarrel! A healthy dating relationship should overcome these differences by being accommodative to them. Accommodate your partners shortcomings. No one is perfect in this world. We are all riddled with a myriad of weaknesses that haunt us everywhere even right inside a relationship.

A healthy dating relationship is built on many pillars. But in order to streamline this pillars so that they can support one entity, their ought to be communication. It is the engine oil of a healthy dating relationship. Communication in a relationship implies that you do not hide and keep feelings to yourself, whether good or bad. Talk with your partner on how you feel about certain issues in the relationship. Do not play your cards under the table. It will make the relationship unhealthy. Share your hopes, dreams and desires and have a capacity for patience, understanding and tolerance.

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Have you ever felt nervous when going out on a first date? Do you sometimes feel uneasy when you are on a date? Do you always fear that your date will never call again after a very special night? Perhaps what you need is a good dating relationship advice to cast all your worries aside.

It's quite normal to sometimes feel anxious during and after a date. With all those crazy thoughts going through your mind, it's not surprising to find yourself still awake in the middle of the night thinking about all the wonderful things that has just transpired. So what happens now? To calm your nerves a bit, read through some of the following tips from some of the good dating relationship advice experts.

First impression lasts

This statement may come of as a bit of a cliché, but perhaps no other words could be more fitting. A good impression will open the doors of opportunity for the two people dating. On the other hand, a bad impression does not automatically lead to a wasted opportunity. It only makes the dating process more challenging. We always try to impress our dates especially during the first time we go out with them. Why? Because it makes it easier to transition to the next phase if everything went according to plan. We try to wear our best dresses replete with matching accessories. But the key here is to not overdo it. Your wardrobe should be your ally, not something that could make or break your night. A good dating relationship advice will tell you to wear clothes that would make you feel good about yourself, thereby boosting your self-confidence.

Keep the conversation interesting

The last thing you want to do on a date is to bore the guy you are going out with. Always remember that in a conversation, it's not about what you know but the things you can share with each other. Here's one good dating relationship advice that you should follow: never talk about your achievements. Instead, think of something in your past-maybe those funny stories you had during childhood-that will make him smile. He will surely have some stories of his own that he's willing to share.

Loosen up

One mistake that some women usually commit is being uptight during the date. It's understandable that you somehow feel anxious, especially if it's your first date, but you really need to loosen up. The reason for this is that the guy might assume you are not into him. And when something is misinterpreted, miscommunication almost always follows. So take this good dating relationship advice and have a worry-free time with the guy you are going out with.

The Follow-up

If you follow a generally good dating relationship advice to the letter, you should not be the one to bring up the subject. Likewise, try to avoid asking for the guy's number, not unless he asked yours first. It's not really bad to do it-in fact some women prefer to break the norm-but it's better to take the safe choice on this one. The initiative should always come from the guy. But if it's the third or fourth date already, then it's just about right to call him about it.

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All of us love to be loved. Love and relationship can last longer if both the persons involved, work on them. There are different ways of expressing love and emotions. A warm hug can make a lot of difference if offered at the right time. Many people fail in their relationship because they don't work on their relationship after they get engaged.

Know the needs

When you are involved in love and relationship, you should know the needs. You should understand what you need from your partner and what the partner needs from you. It is foolish to fall in love and get into a relationship when you don't know the needs. The couple involved in the relationship should talk about their expectations and then start the relationship.

Care and affection

For any relationship to succeed, care and affection is the major requirement. Only when you express your affection to your love, the other person will be happy. In any relationship, both the persons must play dual role of giver and receiver. 'Show your love and be loved' strategy can strengthen even weakest of relationships.

Know your limits

Many love and relationships break because the couples do not know their limits. Just because you love a person, you should not be over possessive. The persons involved in the relationship are human beings and they need their breathing space. People who try to dominate the other person cannot last long in any relationship.

Communication

Communication between the partners is essential in love and relationship. In the initial stages of relationships, both the persons will work on their relationship and communicate a lot. But as days pass by and when they know that they are into the relationship, the interest for communication is reduced. This is where the relationship beings to get a crack in it.

Honesty

Both the persons involved in love and relationship expects the other to be honest. Take some time and share your feelings with your partner everyday. You may be right or wrong, but sharing your feelings with your partner builds trust. When honesty prevails in a relationship, its very difficult for anyone to break that relationship.

Discussions and arguments

Many times the discussions turn into arguments and this leads to the failure of love and relationship. A relationship between two conflicting individuals will not last long if both of them adjust with each other. Both the persons involved in the relationship should be adjustable and work to stop the discussion before it becomes an argument. When you are able to achieve this, then you can be sure that your love and relationship will last long.

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In a sense the term "online dating relationships" is misleading. You're not really having an online dating relationship, at least not entirely. Eventually you're going to want to meet, talk, perhaps touch-publicly first of course, if possible VERY publicly. But, you're going to want to get out into the big scary world, and leave the internet's cocoon of emails and IMs. If you observe a few simple rules, you will know beforehand if the man or woman you're with is worth the effort.

The first rule is a simple one: HONESTY TRUMPS EVERYTHING ELSE on an online dating site. Men, you know you don't look like Brad Pitt, and she knows you don't look like Brad Pitt, so don't put his picture on your profile, even as a joke. Woman can sense you're insecure at little jokes like that, and if you're not like you described in the profile, she's out the door. You're back to square one, just a date online, dating a phantom.

The same applies to women: your prospective internet partner will appreciate your own self more than anything else you can share in your profile. But, and here's rule number two: DON'T BE TOO HONEST AT FIRST. Don't reveal your drinking history, your near-felony arrest, and your couch potato habits. He'll know soon enough about all that once you get into the real world. And for God's sake, don't talk about previous relationships-that one's slow poison for men OR women.

Next, ACCENTUATE THE POSITIVE, in the form of telling about solid things about you- why you love your work (you do, don't you?), your goals (we all love a potential mate with goals), your ideal mate (if he or she likes you, they'll try to measure up). Tell why you're looking into online dating relationships. And please LISTEN CAREFULLY and REMEMBER THE POSITIVES. Both sexes love an opposite number who listens.

Well, now you're actually doing some online dating-in other words, you're connecting to the online dating site where you're texting online, IMing online and emailing online. And as wonderful as the flow of words might be, you may want to actually have a date instead of a date online, dating. So you take the plunge and decide on a date outside the Internet world.

Now, here's a rule one both men and women need-KEEP THE FIRST DATE PUBLIC. Head for the crowded Peet's Tea instead of the deserted (and expensive) P.F. Chang's down the way. Your new friend will appreciate the safety of being in a crowd, and the two of you can keep it brief, pleasant and maybe mildly flirtatious. Do NOT ask to meet in public too early-you'll look like an eager puppy, and nobody dates puppies for long.

Notice how you've come full circle, the place where online dating was supposed to take you. The last rule is: if you feel you might be getting close, TELL YOUR PROSPECTIVE MATE EVERYTHING THAT'S IMPORTANT. This is the time to mention the divorce, the depression you've suffered and, oh, yes, the two kids you're raising as a single father or mother. If he or she doesn't run, you may have found a winner. Regardless of that, your friend needs to know that stuff before committing to something.

Congratulations! If you've followed the rules, you've gone from a single date, through the whirlwind of online dating relationships, to dating a significant other. Your online friendship has gone from the Internet to a real world, with real admiration, real affection, and real love. Oh, and for games players, real nice graphics, too.

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A dating relationship is one where you are constantly going for dates to get to know each other more. In other words, you have not really settled as a couple but are exploring ways to get into a real relationship. Dating is essential because it is through it, that you really get to know a person deep within. It is essential for you to know how to go about a dating relationship and this will enable you make the process as easy as it can be. When you are dating, chances are that you already like their character and are willing to explore more of who they are. There are several things you can employ while dating to ensure that you do not make common mistakes that others have made. The first thing is seriousness. If you are not serious at all, it is better for you to terminate the dating process. This way, you will avoid hurting the feelings of innocent singles. When dating, you must be sure that you want someone in your life. Make sure that your relationship goals match.

A dating relationship should be based on common interests and, when your goal for the relationship contrasts the other person's goal, you are clearly not headed to the same direction. Your goal might be to have a short term relationship and the person might be looking for a spouse. Therefore, if you are looking to get married, make sure you enter into a dating relationship with people who can deliver on this. You need to be yourself while conducting dates. This is the opportunity for your personality to shine. If you pretend to be somebody else, you are definitely going to build your union on a false foundation that is going to fall sooner or later. You do not have to be perfect, just be yourself and everything will work out for you. Another thing you need to have is confidence. Gather courage and be confident while you are dating; this is the only way to ensure that you leave no stone unturned.

A dating relationship does not have to be very long. Once you get to know each other move on the next face of the relationship, this way, you will save a lot of time. In other words, there are many people who are just fearful of relationships and they keep dating and never go beyond it. Life is not a rehearsal by a long shot and, you need to get moving if you are serious enough. Once you like the person you are dating, ask them to be yours officially and this will give a feel of love and stability. Above all, you need to have lots of wisdom to recognize the red flags that might come. If you realize that the person you are dating is not the one, you have an obligation to halt the relationship. Enter into a relationship that you know will be based on true love and affection.

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The Three Tiers of Relationships

1/ Friendship

2/ Love

3/ Relationship

Whether you are single and looking for love, or double and going through challenges in love, there is can be great advantage in understanding how relationships work, and a foolproof way of dealing with challenges in them.

Going through relationship challenges, the key is not to react. Learn to let go.

Love really is a non attachment. To love someone or something is to release it. Let them be themselves. To love a child is to release your expectations of them. To love your partner means unconditional. No matter where they are, no matter what they do, no matter what they did or didn't do. You love them. This is the truth

In times of challenge, go to the bleachers. Go sit in peace, if you release the bird, and it doesn't return, it wasn't yours. Let Karma play its hand.

Don't push and shove - learn to love.

You can gain allot of confidence in karma if you know you have done your best. By following the guidance of Sacred Love book, you know you are not the "cause" and therefore, you can trust Karma. Let the universe do what it must. Lay down your weapons. Trust Karma

If you grab you are interfering. If you reject you are interfering. Hold your space and deal with the emotions as they come up, without reaction or action. Hold the space of love, trust, that if you stay in this space, then Karma will play its hand.

All relationships must be founded on three things.

The ground must be solid and built on friendship. If there is friendship, then, the worst outcome of a fall from love is a beautiful place with a person we want to care for and love. So if there is drama, hold your lover as a friend. Offer friendship as an alternative to relationship. If you can't be friends with someone you want to be in a relationship with, then you have been revealed as a phoney. Friendship means to wish for someone's happiness and to do what you can to help them. If you can't be a friend to someone, how can you have a relationship with them? This is the base layer that needs to be real genuine and solid. In other words if you wouldn't be a friend of the person you are in a relationship with (if there was no relationship) then, really your relationship is killing you both.

The second tier, once friendship is established, is love. This sort of Love must be unconditional love. To love means to release and hold at the same time. Love is the willingness to let the bird fly and know if it is meant to be yours, it will return. This is the second tier. To know how to hold love for someone even if they don't want relationship with you is the gift of Innerwealth. Love is not a condition that is placed on someone. Unconditional love, the foundation for REAL relationships has no IF. There is no IF. There is no condition for the love that underpins a relationship. Love is the foundation from which the emotional and physical and conditional experience of relationship can grow. If you or your partner cannot understand this concept of unconditional love, then all that is built in relationship is temporary. Love must, in its purest form, be unconditional

The third tier is the relationship. A relationship that is based on friendship, motivated by love, has no where bad to fall. The worst that can happen is that you might end up holding love for a person you like, but don't have control over them. Relationship is the cream on the cake, the self satisfaction of a dynamic between two humans. Emotional. material, experiential and personal - a wonderful expression of all that underpins it. A relationship with someone is the crown, but it cannot be allowed to exist in the absence of a willingness to be a friend, and to love (therefore release) unconditionally. Relationship can come and go, but the willingness for friendship and love, are the truth that lives beneath it. Always know that the worst that can come, if relationship is lost, is that you get to love someone you like, but now, just can't control.

To be a good friend, you'll need to have a sense that your dreams, hopes and ambitions are your own. They are portable, adaptable and transferable. If they don't manifest in the company of one person, they will manifest in the company of others. Relationships are not there to cause your dreams to manifest. Relationships are a part of the process. Trust nature in this. Let her guide you, learn to adapt to the changing tides of life. Hold your dreams and purpose sacred, allow nature some hand in the dynamics through which they manifest.

To know love, unconditional love, is to understand the difference between your expectations and your love. People can reject your expectations they cannot reject your love. Hold your love cantered in your heart. Know that you can never stop loving someone you can only put your mind in the way. Practice this as instructed in Innerwealth - The book of love.

Relationship must be seen as the bubbles in the Champaign, the icing on the cake, the cream. The crown. Relationships built on friendship and love, are places of celebration. There is a health independence as only friends know. There is a healthy perspective, as only unconditional love can produce. There is a willingness to dance and struggle as only the provocation and intimacy of a relationship can create. This is relationship built on friendship, sustained by innerwealth, celebrated in intimacy.

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Chris Walker

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A sexual pioneer is a newly-single man or woman who can make you feel like you're the only love in their love life while you're together; then they bolt in search of greener trails. Learn how to recognize their danger signs. And find out when to try or fly from that risky dating relationship.

What are the danger signs of a sexual pioneer?

A sexual pioneer bolts from a passionate fling at the first talk of love, monogamy, commitment or relationship. When the noose isn't loose, a sexual pioneer escapes.

A pioneer is reluctant to discuss their long relationship that recently ended, often because their pioneer urges and actions may have caused the break up of their marriage or relationship. They escape discomfort or soul searching in a string of sexual encounters.

A pioneer's greatest challenge is to spark sexual heat on each date with someone they may really like, without burning in the Fire Of Love. They keep their emotions out of sex. It's often a wild ride, a quick getaway, and no mention of plans to meet again.

A pioneer keeps the romance out of dating. Instead of wining, dining and lovemaking on a dinner date, a pioneer cuts to the chase, often with spicy sex as the appetizer, main course and dessert.

A pioneer may have a reputation of leaving a string of broken hearts behind, especially if recent lovers are bonders who confuse great sex with love.

How does a sexual pioneer differ from a player?

A player tends to be a male serial dater with a history of avoiding committed relationships and seeking passionate flings.

A sexual pioneer is a man or woman who has been in a long relationship. After a big break up they often feel a restless void and a sexual hunger that they try to fulfill by dating like the world is about to end.

Often, they tire of this routine and feel a yearning for another committed relationship. That's when they become a settler who's content with one love at home on the range. So pioneering is phase of restless yearning and dating.

What makes a sexual pioneer become a settler once again?

Meeting someone they don't want to lose. Their former mate may want to reunite. Or it might be a new date who inspires their desire to rededicate themselves to a happy home life.

When should you try and when should you fly from dating a sexual pioneer?

Sexual Pioneers are exciting, dynamic and often great marriage material. If you recognize the signs that you're attracted to a sexual pioneer, ask yourself one question:

Are you willing to go out there and break your heart?

If not, don't engage. Why ride a wave of pleasure in a sea of pain?
If so, you may be able to savor the carnal delights of dating a sexual pioneer.

As long as you don't talk of love and make them run, your sexual chemistry may eventually deepen into emotional intimacy that sparks the Fire Of Love. If that doesn't happen, move on with your love lessons learned so you don't repeat them. You're one step closer to meeting your great love and creating a healthy relationship.

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Life is short just live it to the fullest. Even when you are dating a person, you are in that relationship because you love that person and it makes you happy to be in love. But when your point of affection, your source of happiness turns into a tormentor, you have every reason to be very worried. When did things start changing for the worse? What really went wrong? And why for heavens sake should you stick to an abusive relationship? Why would you allow a person to trash and trample upon your very basic rights? An abusive dating relationship is unhealthy. It is a relationship sitting on a powder keg. It can go off any time. It is a time bomb waiting to explode unless very urgent measures are taken to arrest the situation before it goes out of hand.

An abusive dating relationship shows there are disparities between the couple which can either be bridged or the divide is too wide to fill. Understanding the root cause of the problem is important in order to comprehend this weighty issue. A dating relationship is a two way traffic. Partners compliment each other. One partner's needs are met and fulfilled in the other. It is so mutual and symbiotic you feel bereaved when your mate is not there. What i am trying to say here is that compatibility is the key word. It is what glues two people together. An abusive dating relationship is an indicator of incompatibility. What would drive you to abuse a person you "love". If your partner is abusing you, try and see where you went wrong. Also evaluate your partner, how he relates with you, his background. Maybe he was brought up in an abusive relationship or he was abused in his childhood.

Sometimes a woman stays in an abusive dating relationship for the sake of their children. What would happen if she calls it quit? She becomes hesitant fearing the repercussions her children will face in case of a separation. But what would bridge this gap? Can this couple be reconciled and be able to live again harmoniously and in love? It depends with the two parties concerned. Their is no issue however contentious that cannot be discussed and solved. However if the feelings of attraction, love and affection are no longer there, then the relationship is irreparable. You cannot change the way a person feels towards something. Quit and look for a new beginning.

Your partner could be trying to pass a message to you. He could be showing you a red light. That it is high time you went separate ways, only that you don't seem to pick the signal. He doesn't want to tell you in black and white that go and never turn back. The spark that kept the fire burning is no longer there hence there is no reason to stick together. When in an abusive dating relationship, it is wise to always have an exit avenue. Be prepared psychologically that you can quit and go your separate way. If your partner is abusing you he also does not respect you. You mean nothing to him. Do not stick there, move on. It's your life. You might never know what you have been missing until you quit that relationship.

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