Saturday, October 1, 2011

Loving, Committed Relationship - How to Know He is Ready


Are you ready for a loving, committed relationship with the right guy? Are you confused by the signals your guy sends? Because of past relationships, are you hesitant to trust your feelings? Do you wonder if a committed relationship is in your future? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you can have a loving, committed, relationship and you can know if he is ready.

A loving, committed, relationship is every girl's desire; however, confusing signals, hurts from past relationships, or not trusting your feelings, can contribute to wondering if the guy you are dating is sincerely ready for a relationship. Following are ways to know he is ready for a loving, committed relationship.

Intimate details: No, not does he share with the guy's things he shouldn't, I mean, does he share his personal thoughts and feelings with you? A guy who is ready for a long term relationship will open up and share his thoughts, goals, and experiences. It may not be on the first date, but over time you will begin to see what he is all about. Guys who are in it for "fun" will not be as willing to share their feelings.

Long range plans: A guy who is interested in a relationship will not only plan, but commit to long terms engagements. It may be dinner with friends coming to town for a visit, a social event several months away, or meeting someone at the beach for a weekend get-a-way. If he is seeking long term, he will not be afraid to commit weeks, or even months in advance.

Meet the family: This is a huge test for a relationship. Meeting parents and family is stressful. A guy who is ready for a relationship will do a couple of things. First, he will put his best foot forward for the occasion. Not necessarily coat and tie, but nice slacks and shirt, he will dress to impress. Second, he will take time to ask questions about your family. Are there topics he should avoid, or does your family have certain beliefs he needs to respect. He will do everything he can to make the evening enjoyable for you, your family, and lastly himself.

These are just a few ways to know a guy is ready for long term. When he is ready, he will discuss his life with you and make you feel a part of it. He will make long term plans that include you and he will be willing to meet family and friends. You can have a loving, committed, relationship, and you can know if he is ready.




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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.




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