Years ago I became interested in and began reading about Feng Shui. I became a believer as I read and tested some of these ideas. I've found that it has improved all areas of my life, especially romance. The idea that by moving objects around in my home could bring friendship and even love into my life intrigued me.

We each have different ideas of what is romantic. You decide what is romantic to you and do that. When I was single, my dining room was the relationship area. I hung a large picture of a knight in armor leaning from his horse to embrace a lovely young woman.

I painted my bedroom a lovely soft peach and placed a peach hurricane lamp on my bedside table. I called it my Love Lamp and put a heart shaped rose quartz next to the lamp.

One day when still dating my now-husband, I was feeling a bit insecure when he hadn't called. I turned on my Love Lamp and the phone rang. "This is really woo-woo" I thought. Woo-woo or not, I tried this several times and it always worked. It's another way of setting your intention and then allowing it to happen.

Our relationship area is in the kitchen. What can you do to make the kitchen a romantic spot? My husband and I found a poster of a couple dancing the Flamenco which we have had framed and hung it in the kitchen. Colors for the Love and Relationship area are red and pink, burgundy, or red-orange. We also hung a red metal Chinese love symbol on one wall that we found on a particularly delightful excursion to Cambria, California. In your relationship area do everything in twos, two roses, two people in pictures, etc.

If you want a new romance, use only paintings or photos of two happy people in your relationship area. Do not hang a painting of a lone person no matter how beautiful it is. The bedroom is not a place for family photos- only photos of the two of you taken in happy circumstances.

My husband and I have been and continue to be blessed in our relationship. I believe that is because we honor each other's space. Our own bedroom is painted in a warm soft terra cotta. A Himalayan salt lamp lends a soft warm glow to the room. A soft scarf over the chest of drawers and silk and velvet pillows on the bed give a luxurious feel to the room. Our room feels warm, comfortable, restful and inviting to us. That's the way yours should feel to you.

We express our personalities in our homes. You are the one who is living there. Make it feel good to you. Make it beautiful warm and inviting to you. Have fun with Feng Shui and see how it can transform your life.

Gail Manishor is the author of From Here to Serenity, A Spiritual Guide to Transform Your Life, Gail's mission is to help people come to the realization of the Truth of who they really are and guide them through her counseling and writing to a place of peace and serenity. Visit Gail's website at: http://gmanishor.com

Every relationship goes through with ups and downs. This challenging situation can be a good reason to strengthen or weaken the relationship. A couple may take the challenges as positive and may strengthen their relationship but on the other hand a couple may take it negatively and start to mistrust each other and relationship become weakens. It could result to breaking apart, which is the most painful feeling a person could feel. But when one is passionate with each other it is sometimes a need seek for relationship help.

In most break ups, it often leaves a broken heart and a feeling of disappointment or betrayal from the other party or it could be both. In dealing such painful feeling it requires the basic relationship help which is, learning to forgive. Forgiveness is not an easy move to make because it will require a person to face the truth with courage. When the goal is to ask forgiveness or be forgiven, a good communication should be established.

In most break ups, the difficult part is when couple decided to stop their communication. It is a sign of avoidance, avoiding one's true feelings for the other because they may think that it might best move to avoid the painful feelings. But how long would it take when you know that you want be together again?

It can be a good relationship help in bringing back your partner by starting with a good communication. Like in every relationship, it is always emphasize that good communication can be a key to a successful and lasting relationship. A best relationship help is to know how to open up the problems such as mistakes and misunderstanding. In this way, each individual can have an idea how to forgive and how to ask forgiveness and vice versa.

With a good communication it is best to try to search for the root cause of the break up. Sometimes when we are in the deep of our emotions we tend to disregard the cause rather we jump into conclusions which is breaking up. But by talking and searching for the cause of it, both may learn their differences within them and learn how to deal with it. Through solving the problem both can learn from that experience and grow with it to become a mature couple.

Though learning individual differences, it still hard to regain trust that had been broken already and this is where forgiveness could be hard. Then it is a must rebuild the trust to be able to forgive and forget those painful and hurtful feelings brought by the break ups.

After establishing a good communication, the next step is building again the friendship. It is nice to start again from the beginning by being friends. Since the trust is questionable when you broke up, a relationship helps when you regain that trust again by being friend with her/him. A strong foundation of friendship can be a good start of a good relationship. For in every relationship, a friendship is built within them that help them to trust one another.

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