Secrets to Men, Love and Relationships - True Love is at Your Fingertips

Do you feel you missed out on the lessons about men, love and relationships? Have you had a succession of relationship that just left you feeling hopeless about the prospect of beginning another one? Do you just want to quit the dating scene and find a good man to share your life with?

First off, start by knowing what you really want in a man. Too many women see a man they find physically appealing then ignore the fact that he's not really the man who will make her happy. Be honest in your assessment. Also, be open to the notion that the man of your dreams may not look exactly as you've always imagined.

Just as you don't want to be appraised simply by your looks, don't turn down a guy just because he didn't jump out of a GQ magazine. You may be surprised by the outcome.

Once you find that man, forget about marriage, commitments and a long term relationship. With these notions in your head, you're apt to put pressure on yourself and then put that pressure on him. The whole 'this has to go somewhere' attitude can be very detrimental to a relationship.

Consider those few dates like going out with a friend. So what would you do with a friend for whom you have no expectations? You'd have fun, talk about common interests, make each other laugh and just let your hair down and have a good time. Without the weight of a commitment hanging over both your heads, you can just relax and have fun.

Included in this budding friendship is a lack of sex. Yep. Sex may be the way to go when you're looking for a quick night of fun, but if you want more, you have to up the ante and be willing to show him you have more to offer. Unfortunately, when women put sex up front, the guy then rarely takes the time to look further and the relationship stagnates in the bedroom.

Have confidence in your ability to be a complete woman. You know that you're more than just your sexual qualities. So let him see your intellectual side, your adventurous nature or you wild adrenaline junkie side. He should be aware of everything you have to offer.

Are you in a hurry? Don't be. This is not the time to rush. The real secret to men, love and relationships is constantly being aware of what the guy is feeling. Ask yourself at the end of a date, did he have so much fun with you that he's walking away eager to see you again, or did you hassle him so much that he'll be reluctant to call again.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.