Abuse of Teen Dating - dreams, desires & goals

Before enter you a serious dating relationship, you need to ask the following questions about dreams, desires and objectives. Someone who is only concerned about their own dreams, desires and goals is likely, at worst, become dangerous if someone interferes with them. On the other end of the spectrum, a person without dreams, desires and objectives may become rough with someone who has some and works against them.

Ideally, you both have dreams, desires and objectives. Separately and together. You both strive to respect and encourage others to do the same. Bring you the best the other and not worst. So it is a real indication of possible abuse if everything must always be only on "me" and if someone has an ambition as a mowed by blade of grass.

Bill Kerley summarizes it up really swell in this joke: Question: "what is the difference between ignorance and apathy ambivalence". Answer: "I don't know and I keep one way or the other." You do not want to know and you care one way or the other. And there is safety from someone else who done the same.

1. Where do you live?

2. What kind of things you expect to do on vacation in the future?

3. How do you nurture your dreams?

4. What are the goals and your dreams and your desires?

5. What are your dreams for us together?

6. How can feed us these dreams all?

7. How can I encourage to do you what you like to do?

8. What is your dream?

9. You do anything to achieve your dream?

10. You are a careful person?

11 Is that your families and friends agree with the answer you gave to the last question?

12 Describe your ideal wedding.

13. What is your dream honey Moon?

14 How long should honeymoon last?

15. What career or careers do you want to continue?

16. What are your educational goals?

17. You are one of these kind of people who are still learning, or you just want to learn enough to get by and then stop learning?

18 Is it important for you what my education and career goals?

Article from copyright 2008 by Linda Culbreth. You may freely reproduce this article also long that you use exactly as it is with no changes, additions or omissions, including the resource box.

Linda Culbreth "Eagle" is a speaker and author of Date a hero, not a zero and other works found at [http://www.eaglesport.biz] as a survivor of abuse on the part of someone who was supposed to love it, Eagle wants to stop the experience of teenage abuse one in three. Date a hero, not a zero is a home study course that allows parents and their adolescents against dating violence and rape. [http://www.eaglesport.biz/1.html] Subscribe to the Date_A_Hero! Bulletin boards of parents to the http://home.ezezine.com/2174/