Just as with "real world" relationships, online relationships need tending and nurturing in order to grow over time. So here are some simple growing tips.
1. Take some time to make time. Do you and your chatting partner get in touch regularly?
Some people are very touchy about this. They think of online chatting the same way our parents did about the telephone.
Online chatting is a bit of a responsibility. While the technology has given us new options, it has also added new obligations. Neglecting your online relationship may be considered real neglect by the other person.
Remember that these are not merely words on a screen, so treat the other person's emotions with respect.
2. On the other hand, if one of you seems too pushy, especially with regards to real-life meeting, it could give off some bad vibes. So don't rush it. Take some time to learn more about the other person and to develop some mutual trust
3. Of course, respect the other person's privacy. Don't share confidences or information or photos that the other person shared with you without his or her permission.
4. Share fun times with the other person -- both online and off-line.
Online, send special greetings from time to time to break up the monotony of mere chatting. Send digital greeting cards, links to funny websites or photos of your cherished pet. Send them links to discussions of interest on your favorite forums or interesting music or video clips.
Offline if you and your fellow chatter have exchanged addresses or post office boxes, you can send them greeting cards or postcards and even small items such as a keychain with the logo of your state bird or sports team.
Above all, be sure to attend to your online relationships regularly. Water them and care for them, and over time they will sprout and grow.
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