Friday, October 7, 2011

Are You Ready to Get Your Ex Back? Test Yourself! Trust in Relationships


There are 3 questions you need to know the answer to in order to win anyone back so pay attention. You could be making huge mistakes right now, but if you get these 3 questions answered correctly you can gain trust in relationships and attract anyone.

1. When I want to win back my ex? a) Keep as close to the object of my desire as I possibly can b) Stay away and keep a long distance between us c) Keep close, but not that close The correct answer here is C. If you keep too close, then it will feel like you are smothering that person. Everyone needs room to breathe, so don't cling too much. Trust in relationships are difficult, and even more so if you stay away from whomever you want to attract or get back. If you are far away, who know what you might be doing right? That is exactly what your object of desire is thinking. Why are you so far away? So distant? So keep close, but give room to breathe and to grow.

2. When trying to attract someone patience is? a) A bad thing, because if you only wait around, nothing happens b) A good thing, it builds up trust in relationships c) A thing I don't have to worry about because it's not important Did you peek? The correct answer here is B. If you chose A, I'm sure you had your reasons. It's true that you don't want to wait around for things to happen automatically, but that's not what being patient mean. C is certainly wrong, because patience is incredibly important for a number of reasons. One reason is that everyone values patience. Think about it for second. When you are in the post office and there is a long queue behind you, you rely on them being patient while you are doing what you came there for. What if everyone started yelling at you for taking more than a minute? Same applies in relationships. If you can show patience, the person you try to attract will think you are much more attractive and interesting. Patience is attractive!

3. Why would you want to be independent? a) To show that I can take care of myself b) To play hard to get c) To become interesting to the person I try to attract The right answers here is A simply because you have to be able to be your own person, function with or without your chosen target. This is important. I know that your goal is to get someone interested in you and it sounds great that you can't live without that person, but this is real life, real situations. You will want to show who you are, because you exist with or without someone by your side, show your identity!

Playing hard to get can work sometimes, but that's not why you want to be independent. There is nothing more interesting in an independent person than someone being dependent or something or someone. Just be yourself, show your individuality, because you want the person you are trying to attract or get back want you for who you are, because if not, what's the point? So did you score well on this quiz? Please tell me you did, or you have no chance at attracting anyone. Ok, I am just kidding, this is a learning process like life itself. Not everyone is an expert on day one. Give it a little time and you can get back your ex or whoever you want in life. Trust me, it's not so difficult once you know how.




http://thelovegeek.com is about love and how to find and keep it. The Love Geek is a resource started by author Jorn Tillnes. Relationships are not easy, but you may want to go to Find True Love to get some answers.




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