Have you already decided that it'll be impossible for you to get a guy to fall in love with you? Are you giving up on men, love and relationship because you just can't handle the stress of it all anymore? On the other hand, are you tired of being alone and you'd just like to find that nice guy to settle down with? Sure, it can be frustrating. Men are hard to understand. Our own hearts are easy to break. And the whole relationship thing is just so complicated it's hard to know where to start. Well, you can start here.
Try to take a look at the male/female relationship from his point of view. Many men equate women and relationship with loss of freedom and a dull life. Not surprisingly when you look at some of the more tedious couples around you. Women are notorious for cutting a man down and preventing him from going out and having any fun at all.
So to counter that fear, you have to come off as being fun to be around and easy going. Don't enter the dating arena with the sole purpose of landing yourself a husband. It will be written all over your face and just about every guy will be scared off by it. Take each date as its own entity and just have fun. Don't look to the future and wonder what will happen. Enjoy your evening with him and see what you take away from it.
Did you have fun? Did he crack you up? Was he witty and amusing? And did he seem impressed and intrigued by you? Was he interested in what you had to say? All of these things can indicate the amount of fun he had with you. The more fun he had, the more chances you have that he'll call you again.
You don't want your date to see you as being desperate or rushed, just fun. This will open up a whole new path to dating and soon just having fun will evolve into becoming closer, good friends, intimate and finally a romantic relationship.
Throughout, don't let yourself fall into the trap of having sex with him too soon. I know it can be tempting to have him that close to you and you may feel that going to bed with him is going to seal the deal, but it rarely works that way. Be patient and realize that, if he's the least bit interested in you, he'll be more than willing to wait. Making a man fall in love with you is really a matter of showing him the wonderful woman you are and getting him to appreciate you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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