Is dating Q & A - it lust or love? You know discover 13 ways, real love

Dating question: I have been seeing a man monthly for over a year while he is a divorce in the middle of the battle. He and his one year soon-to-be ex-wife had just married when they split, and he says that there is no love lost there.

Our monthly meetings feel like a safe haven, where we have a meal, friendly conversation and fabulous physical intimacy for dessert enjoy a bottle of wine. We have not in contact, to mount me our next monthly meeting on his place or me until he mails.

He says he is not someone else and he signs his emails with "Love". But we never talk feelings or we are future possibilities for a relationship in the lusty hours together every month. We have similar values and life experiences and enjoy our brief encounters. With our rare contact I feel what I want or what we have not emotionally close so I'm not sure. How do you know, whether it lust or love?

Dating response: you seem to questions whether there a purpose in your mutual pleasure in being together. Here is my litmus test for love or lust. How long are you willing to tread water in a sea of pleasure? How long will you avoid help topics, you determine whether you are a compatible love match over the long term? After his divorce is final?

You seem satisfied with a friends-with-benefits connection by affection and feelings of lust is powered. If you want to see like to grow and bloom, need it with new eyes.

Love is much more than a feeling. It is a loving attitude and enthusiastic action plan to show your love and grow in love with your intimate partner. It is your heart free and allow yourself to know and be known. You can do this by pushing ahead with your consciousness for the purpose of dating.

If you are satisfied with casual dating, you get what you expect and want in your current romantic connection.

If you would like to grow and blossom, here 13 questions are to help you match compatible to create love and a happy relationship:

You see, and bring the best out of each other?
Celebrate each other successes?
Join each other for who you are?
Do you listen without judgment?
Do you know any other families and friends?
Keeping you promise to one another?
Keep no secrets and tender to tell the truth?
Are you friendly and considerate in all of your interactions?
Do you believe in each other?
Use joyful surprises to keep your relationship fresh?
Do little things to facilitate the burden to lift mood?
Share laugh and kiss tears?
Trust that you will be what no matter for each other?

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