Great Relationships Start With Mature Relationship

A relationship can be made or broken it all depends on what acts for or against it. Positive reinforcements aid to build a successful relationship, while certain negative aspects end up having a cankerous effect on what should be a beautiful thing.

As we all know, there's good and bad in this world good things that make and bad things that come in the way of relationships even as they mature. Whats good is that you can learn to identify and isolate the bad aspects that kill your relationship. As you learn to identify them each time, your relationship gets a greater chance of making it.

So what gets in the way of a great relationship? Read on...

One's pride - Pride is probably the main factor that contributes to the untimely demise of a dating relationship. It comes in many sizes and originates from ones selfishness. Pride is not that which makes you boast. Pride is that which does not allow you to give in even when you know you've lost. It provokes negative feelings and makes you greedy for something that's not yours. Pride differs from love in such that it does not work in your best interest.

One's greed - Greed and pride are bed mates. Greed is widely prevalent. Greed doesn't allow us to be happy with what we have but wants us to always covet something that someone else has. In a relationship, our greed for our partners time, respect or any other factor can end up ruining the relationship for us.

One's lust - True commitment comes out of love that gives and protects. Love is about sacrificing base desires for the fulfillment of ones soul. Lust is the very opposite of this. When we allow lust to superimpose the love in our hearts, we end up falling prey to temporary instant gratification syndrome. Lust makes us victims of our baser instincts. Then we lie and deceive and manipulate to get our loves still in our lives. Lust is the evil weed that chokes the air out of your good relationship.

One's bitterness and unforgiving nature - Hurt happens. In all relationships, some amount of give and take happens. Forgiveness is what paves the way to tomorrow. If you cannot overlook hurts and forgive, if you harbor resentments for a long time, your heart gets filled with bitterness. Bitterness kills the love. Be honest with your partner and share the hurt and find a way to work through it. Try to forgive and ask their help to keep the love alive.

These are the cancers that can root out the good cells of your relationship. Be aware of them, and watch out for them during the development and post-development phases of your mature relationship and face them in time.

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