Are you ready for love?

Search for love is a process that we often want to accelerate. We often have the following question: when will I find? It may seem like you have been waiting for an eternity. Although you may be anxious to find love, you must determine if you are really ready for love. I was single for a long time, before I met my fiance '. I went through a period of time I was desperate to find love. The idea of love seemed to me consume. I thought I had to really find love to be happy. On top of that, things were not very good in my personal life. I had just completed my search my and for a job descent seemed hopeless. I think you could say that I went through a small depression and was looking for something to pull me out of my funk. I decided to try online dating for the first time, although I very skeptical what had been there. I logged in on the computer, and I filled out a personality profile, very long. It lasted forever that completing the profile that was very frustrating. I must have conducted my bad posture and my current state of depression in the profile fill out of process, because in the end, that I was told long tedious process, "we have unfortunately no results for you at this time." Wow! I was excited to put it to say the least. If I now wasn't already bad about me, I turned down an online dating service. At this point, I threw an even greater pity party.

In hindsight, I realize that I was not prepared for the love of this time. My emotions were all over the place. If I would have started dating I would have driven then probably mad the poor guy. I don't think that my attitude "gloomy Gus" would also be fun to be. The bottom line, I had to problem that I needed to work out before looking for love.

You may believe that the search for love is the answer to your problems. You may think that it your solitude to heal and solve all your problems of life, or at least keep your mother questions: "When you'll marry"? Search for love is great! I'm so happy that I was blessed with a great fiance been. But love has not solved all of my problems.

My point is don't look for love in the hope that it will change your whole life. Love greatly enriched my life, but it is not completely remodel. If you expect suddenly perfectly for your life, you will be disappointed. You should be a balanced and healthy life before you pursue love. Find love a process, you must emotionally stable and clear thinking, to cope. You are probably some Heartbreaks and disappointments on the way to have. If you are emotionally unstable or socially isolated a hard time dealing with bumps on the road you have. One of my favorite song of India Arie expresses my sentiment exactly, read their texts:

"I'm ready for love"

Why hide from me

I would quickly give my freedom.

Be held in your captivity

I am ready for love

All of the joy and the pain

And all the time, the

Remain only to your good grace

Lately, I've been thinking about

Perhaps you're ready for me

You might think that I need to learn maturity

You say, see, what for questions

Cause you might receive

But if you me, tomorrow questions

I'll say the same thing.

I am ready for love

Would you hire please your ear me?

I promise that I complain, will not

I need you to acknowledge I am here

If you me half a chance

I'll prove it to you

I'll be patient, friendly, loyal and true.

A man who loves music

A man loves art

Respect is the spirit world

And thinks with his heart

I am ready for love

If you include me in your hands

I will learn what you teach

And the best, what can I do that

I am ready for love

Here with an offer of

My voice

My eyes

My soul

My opinion

Tell me what is enough

To prove I am ready for love

I'm ready "-by India Arie"

You need to find for themselves prepare love. Here are a few things you can do to be ready for love:

1. Knowledge what you want

Think about what you want in your counterpart. You must know what you want before you can find it. You want to have an idea of the qualifications you need in a man to make you happy. If you go on the search list for love without a "got to have" you will be distracted by all the guys, that are out there, rather than to focus on the right candidates.

2. Develop their own social network and group of friends

You don't want to a "Clinger". A Clinger is a woman who wants to spend with her husband every free moment. She want to talk, texting or hanging out with her guy 24 7. You are smothering a man with this unhealthy behavior. You need your own life! Need things that interest you and meet your man.

3. Cut the strings on poor relations

Often people think they are ready for love, but they are meddling in unhealthy relationships. Let the past. You need to let your ex alone, to stop him calling, if you get lonely or bored. If you are not the door on old relationships to you will not be able to open the door for the correct relationship. Also stay away from men, the already in relationships or married. If they are already taken, they are not for you.

4. Self develop

You should have a number of long-term and short-term goal for yourself. You stare out the window, not only waiting for love, "never a PM pot cooking". Concentrate to develop in themselves as a person. Work to improve who you are, so that you will be a better person and a more desirable mate. Most men find women who have their stuff together. Competition for a good person is stiff, so be sure that you present "Best you". Work and develop your physical, mental and spiritual self. There is always something you can do to become a better person!

5. Contact new love

Please talk or to meet with our relationship coach. They give you a brief assessment to determine whether you're ready for love. When you're ready for love, our relationship coach the process helps you start the preparation of love.

Kristin c of new love founder and relationship coach

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