Love, Dating, Divorce and All That

It's almost 2012 and most of us don't know what we want in this lifetime. We are all, "Somewhere in the middle of nowhere." Why is this so? For most of us, we are primarily focused on our career! This is a great endeavor! The economy isn't going to give in to our monetary needs, so it is absolutely necessary to make a living and properly secure our financial future. Both of these are definitely high priorities, but what about love? Many in this category are in their early or mid-thirties and of course, are either single or divorced! However, the biological clock is ticking! Not to mention, the feeling of incompleteness is starting to really set in!

That brings the anxiety of being alone! Ask yourself, am I going to be alone for the rest of my life? Is there someone out there for me? Moreover, we should know that True Love will not be found in a Bar or at the night club where all the regulars hang-out! What about those who are divorced for whatever reason and didn't have Plan B, just in case," death didn't do them apart?" Worse than that, your spouse or lover had a sudden change of heart after several months, years, or decades together! What about the person you dated for 2 years and then they realized, that they haven't found themselves yet?

I know what you're thinking, who is this guy? Right? I'm no relationship expert, but experience does give us all better knowledge on how to handle certain situations. However, I would like to recommend Patti Stanger, from Millionaire Matchmaker! Patti is simply awesome! Relationships are her passion and she has a very high success rate for putting couples together! Have you ever wondered what life could be like, if that special someone was never found? Do you now realize that you had," The One", and wish that you had it all again? Some people will tell you that being too busy, has stopped them from starting any romantic relationships.

Will time, age, beauty, or a near death experience give you a new perspective on how short life really is? Ideal advice for all is: If you find True Love, don't take it for granted! We've only got one life to get it right! Relationships are in fact, what you make them! Most important of all is, "If you have never loved, you haven't really lived yet!"

Let's let love guide us to places that we never knew were possible! Death is certain, but life is not! Make time for those people in your life who always seem to lift your spirit, horizon, and dedicate themselves for your cause. Give love a chance!