Do you want more intimacy with your existing partner?

The spiritual Pitbull speaks of intimacy. In me you will find under. His guess is you mean, you want more affection, touch, time and concentration of your partner. And in extreme cases, more physical intimacy in the form of sex. What drives a person to bring? Can do a check-list.

1 / The first thing that we need to consider is whether you bark are on the wrong track. Is your partner with you because they love and admire and worry for you, or because you are the person, it has committed itself, or because you are the parents of the child?

2 / Expect someone treat you better than you enjoy? How do you feel when you are alone? They are filled out of purpose in your life, with the wrong priorities, and therefore totally dependent of your relationship for your happiness. You know, that nobody better can handle, as you pamper yourself. So, perhaps, the gift of the lack of intimacy with your lover you shows that you are in your own life off course.

3 / The secret that close, draws people is romantic and the key to the romantic period is a single word. Wow. Wow Wow Wow "I like you" means "I appreciate you" means means "Are the best" Wow means "Thank you" - so, instead of waiting for Christmas or Valentine's day, why do you not today, the best day.

4 / I know he said 3 but here is the latest. It is sensitive and politically incorrect, but have you looked in the mirror lately, smelt your breath, saw your underwear, your Sox on his nose kept? When we first meet someone we and make attractive and therefore seduced us they allocate. Then, we sometimes get the idea that, once dedicated to a relationship, we need advertising not to someone. Of course, this is not the case.

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Letting go the old relationship so you can turn up for a new one?

Yes, this is really important. Sometimes we hold onto anger or attraction for an old relationship and that sabotages the quality of the new one. If you are holding anything but gratitude for your past, it's running you. Consider these little ideas from the universe of nature.

1/ Nobody can do you more harm than good or more good than harm.

2/ Nobody does to you on the outside more than you are doing to yourself on the inside.

3/ There are no victims. We cause our own reality. So actually what they did is what you wanted them to do at some level.

4/ Nature destroys anything that is not fulfilling it's purpose. Including friendships.

5/ What you judge you breed in your children, attract in a partner or become.

Undecided whether to stay or go?

Spiritual pitbull thinks "don't leave em till you love em." We have a habit of thinking that if we blame some situation and move away from it, we'll be better. If you meet someone who tells you they left the last relationship because of the behaviour of their last partner, run for your life. They are so full of shit. Lying to themselves, and now you. And guess what? "You're next"

Blame is a poison and one that infects so many people. You must consider whether you are blaming your partner for your inherent misery. Thinking you can escape by dumping this one for that one, is going to prove a fruitless chase.

Learn the difference between love and relationship. You can love someone and still leave. If you love someone you are really aware that there is nothing about them that you don't have in you, and there's nothing about you that isn't divine. So, lets say it again. You are a divine being. Everything you see is just a reflection of you. Therefore, everything you see and every one you meet, is worthy of love.

If you can separate love from relationship, there's no need to have a relationship with all people you love, and there's no need to love all people you have a relationship with. Love however, is a requisite for moving out of a relationship you are in. Because love frees you. Once you love someone you can choose whether you want a relationship or not, this is far better than running away and therefore into your problems.

Can't let go of something that happened in the past, lost trust for your partner?

The spiritual Pitbull says "trust is more important, and more valuable in a relationship than love. To be trusted, or to give trust to another person, is so private, so precious a gift, one must treasure this more than anything, because once lost, all becomes mechanical, irrelevant and ambivalent. Trust.

Trust is a silk thread between lovers. So easily broken it must be protected. Once broken trust is hard to repair, but totally possible.

Firstly, if someone broke your trust, stop blaming them. No one can break your trust more than you do to yourself. Were you lying to yourself? Did you really want to be somewhere else? Did you feel committed but not wanting to stay? The real solution to healing broken trust is to stop blaming them and accept that you have the power to cause people to break your trust.

Otherwise if you think someone broke your trust you'll never ever trust them again - and for that matter, you'll not trust others too. Loose trust for one, loose trust for all.

Single and just don't know where to start?

We were all single once. This is the message from Spiritual Pitbull. We were all single once and even when we're in a relationship we are single allot. So, let's shoot the myth that having a relationship is going to solve all your problems.

Next, Spiritual pitbull would like to remind you that nothing is ever missing. So, you are not single really. You have everything you need all around you. The change will be in centralizing it all into one person, rather than a bunch.

The next thing is about desperation. When we really, really, really want someone, our intuition becomes fogged so we make some really big mistakes. Desperation causes us to infatuate people, and infatuation blinds us. So, be cool, make sure you're happy, and content being single, don't get desperate.

http://www.chriswalker.com.au Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris?s work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au -- http://www.chriswalker.com.au

Want more intimacy with your existing partner?

The spiritual pitbull talks about intimacy. Into Me See. His guess is you mean you want more affection, touch, time and focus from your partner. And in extreme cases, more physical intimacy in the form of sex. What pushes a person away? Lets do a check list.

1/ The first thing that we need to look at is whether you are barking up the wrong tree. Is your partner with you because they love and admire and care for you, or because you are the person they made a commitment to, or because you are the parent of their child?

2/ Are you expecting someone to treat you better than you treat yourself? How do you feel when you are alone? Are you so off purpose in your life, filled with the wrong priorities and therefore totally dependent on your relationship for your happiness. You know that nobody can treat you better than you treat yourself. So, maybe, the gift of lack of intimacy with your lover is showing you that you are off track in your own life.

3/ The secret that draws people close to you, is romance and the key to romance is a single word. Wow. Wow means "I really like you" wow means "I appreciate you" Wow means "you are the best" Wow means "thank you" - so, instead of waiting for Christmas or valentines day, why not make today, the best day.

4/ I know he said 3 but here's the last one. It's sensitive, and politically incorrect but have you looked in the mirror lately, smelt your breath, looked at your undies, held your sox to your nose? When we first meet someone we do allot to make ourselves attractive and therefore seduce them. Then sometimes we get the idea that, once committed to a relationship, we don't need to woo someone. This of course is not the case.

http://www.chriswalker.com.au Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris?s work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au -- http://www.chriswalker.com.au