Looking like him to commit? Had ever a relationship with a man who well started you, but faded after a few dates? Seemed he interested in your feelings of less, depending on more told you? If you lose a guy after a few data and commit him instead to make, you should avoid that this is a big mistake!

Love, dating, and relationships can be strange in many ways, but this might be the strangest of all - the more you want the relationship, the more likely it will not work. And the more you want to commit him, the more he will not.

It is frustrating, and common logic cannot explain it. As intelligent women, we have learned that hard work pays off, and when we want something, we go ahead and get it. But how come this kind of approach fails miserably when it comes to men and relationships?

If you want to commit him, you must realize this truth:

Love is not a thought process. It's a feeling. There is no idea - it's a feeling!

In other words, use your opinion not to fall in love. Love not by the rules of logic. And it most definitely will not meet your expectations, especially if your expectations unrealistic in the first place! So if you try find ways, oblige him to make, listen up, about change, how you look or how you speak. I'm pretty sure that pretends to be that someone will do everything, only worse.

But it returns good news about this whole thing - even though love a feeling, there are many techniques , use to your advantage to this feeling.

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1. Be a reporter and do an up close and personal interview of your date or mate. Ask them about their childhood, their current hopes and dreams, what challenges they're facing, what accomplishments make them feel proud.

Ask them to imagine their ideal relationship and tell you the qualities they seek and offer. Can you each bring these qualities into your relationship?

After your interview, offer to reverse roles and let your partner take a turn interviewing you. How you can use these new insights to spark the fire of love in your relationship?

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