When it comes to women and relationships, in the beginning, most men think they want to "Have their cake, and eat it too".

No need to explain what I mean by this, because I'm sure you intuitively get what I'm talking about, and you may have experienced this with a man.

But... This is not the case with every single man that a woman meets.

Every once in awhile, a man will meet a woman and know very quickly - without a doubt - that he wants to be with her and only her. I'm talking about the situation where a man knows he wants to be with one woman because it feels right on a deep emotional level.

When this happens, the man will usually be the one to push for a long-term commitment.

And you won't have to do anything but keep being the great partner that you are, and help him with the things he wants to do, to keep you both close and together.

Sometimes though for some strange reason, the guys you don't want seem to always be pursuing you for more.

Maybe this has happened to you before... But you don't exactly know how or why it happened... Or more importantly, how to repeat it with a guy you really want...

Strange how that works, isn't it?

Your goal is getting a guy that you want, to want to be more and more committed with you!

A woman that truly captures a man's heart will:

Make a man feel, through experience, that he's better off being with you rather than being single, spending most of his time with his friends, or "sleeping around".

And...

Show a man, on a physical and emotional level, that he's better off being with you rather than any other woman he could possibly meet.

Probably not your favorite thing to hear, but most men are "designed" by nature to be able to sleep with a lot of women. Men have a "drive" that's part of their long time role in nature.

Of course, this is not the way most women were designed...

In order for you to make a man feel that he is better off being with you rather than living the "single life" and going around and sleeping with a lot of women... Or focusing obsessively on his career. You need to remind him of the benefits that a deep, connected, loving relationship brings... And unlock those hidden feelings inside of him.

Fortunately it's easy to do - especially when he already has feelings of attraction for you. You can turn those feelings of attraction into feelings of intimacy and passion.

So few women know how to help a man get in touch with this side of himself - the part of himself that all men secretly long to share - when you are the one that helps him to do it, he will automatically start experiencing a deep connection with you and want to keep it alive and growing.

This is not something you can do just by talking about it. The key is to actually get him to experience those feelings when he's around you.

The reality here is that a guy will not willfully commit to you unless you flip this "switch". And no amount of pleading, begging, withholding, etc. Will work.

When you do flip this switch and trigger these thoughts... He will be the one asking you to commit... Every time.

If a relationship isn't growing, it's usually dying... And perhaps the most important thing you need to know is to continue to strengthen the bond between you and your man,... Keep that fire of intimacy burning forever.

Every one of us dreams of one day experiencing that "storybook" romance with that special person we are meant to share our lives with...

We think about how wonderful it will feel to finally be with that person... Look into their eyes... And know that we've found the love and connection we've been searching for.

For further, more in depth information and tips on this subject, please visit the link below...

[http://datinghelp101.info/]

I am sure you will agree that the information provided at the link above is very enlightening!

Thanks, Ken

There are a lot of articles lately on the subject of commitment in relationships and love. There are entire e-courses written for men and women, who are struggling to find fulfillment in their relationships and romance, knowing that commitment is often missing or fleeting. But, we all have a sense, that commitment is something we really want, but often find difficult to achieve. There are many reasons, and, in this first article on this topic I will explore this area.

But, I want you to consider that one of the most basic steps toward achieving commitment in either romance, love or any other are of your life, is to be able to distinguish what you're already committed to. Often, we fool ourselves into believing that we are committed to something, but the results suggest something quite different, and that's the disconnect -- and the source of the results you're getting. You may say/believe that you are committed to finding the love of your life and really making that relationship work, but, if you look, you have really not spent the time it takes to date, make contacts on an on-line dating website or even smile at the opposite sex when you are out in the world. In this case, I assert, you've been fooling yourself, and if you really want power and results, it pays to first, tell the truth to yourself. Why does that give you power? Because in telling the truth, you can stop the pretense that's robbed you of the results you want. It's the pretense that we keep up, that keeps us from getting results. How can you get great results if you're essentially telling yourself a lie? There's little integrity in it. Sometimes, we fool ourselves to protect us from being hurt again, or from pain. It's a natural human behavior, but it's also counterproductive. It doesn't work and you keep getting the same result.

So, here is the simple acid test for determining what you're committed to, and there will be many who will disagree with this. But, I also assert, if you disagree with the following, you should consider that you may be one of those people who have been fooling themselves, and it's time to be straight with yourself, if you want the results you say you want.

SO: How you tell what you've been committed to, is to take a look at what you've got. Yup. Right now. If you say you're committed to being in a relationship, take a look back over the last 3-10 years. How many have you been in? How long have they lasted? If the answer is on the side of "none," I suggest that you've been committed to something entirely different: You've been committed to being safe, not getting hurt and not taking risks. Perhaps you HAVE been in relationships, but they have all ended without a long term commitment. In this case, maybe you've been committed to being in a relationship that's sufficient, but you've not been willing to do whatever it took to make it work and have the satisfaction you yearn for, or deal with REAL commitment. If you're committed to on-line dating, how many emails have you sent, unsolicited? How many IMs have you sent? If the number is low, consider there's no real commitment there. If you're waiting for someone to find YOU, then be prepared to extend the time in which you'll find someone. And, that may be OK with you. Everyone has their own pace. But, in this article, I am assuming that you actually DO want to find a long lasting, satisfying relationship soon, or you wouldn't be reading this far.

How do I know this? I take a look at myself. I have been in two relationships with great women in the last six years. One lasted four years, and then, the other, one year. In the first, I tried and tried to have her be committed, but I could never achieve that. In fact, I got angry and made her the "bad guy" for not committing. BUT - what I really achieved was keeping her from being committed, by being someone who was angry about her lack of commitment, which provided no space at all for her to commit.

What I saw, in retrospect, is that I became angry because I was simply scared, believing that she would never be behind me, and never embrace me as her lover or husband. I subconsciously sabotaged her commitment! And, my actions kept the relationship safe, and while exclusive, there was no real commitment other than to be together and safely not fully committed. Insidious, isn't it? When you see women who have affairs with married men, there is a commitment to be related and intimate, but NOT to have to be truly committed in a situation where you have to give yourself fully and expect all the same in return. It's a SAFE relationship, designed to minimize emotional risk. It works for someone who's been previously hurt, but not for long. Ultimately, it keeps you from getting what you want. True love.

So, here is what there is for you to do with this information: Take a look at an area of your life, your romances, your relationships, where you are not having satisfaction or results. On a piece of paper, write down what you SAY you're committed to. And then, under that, write down the results of what you've HAD. The bottom notes are REALLY what you're committed to, under the guise of wanting the top. There are reasons why you've been acting that way, and I'll uncover these reasons next. But I'll give you one hint. It's a four letter word starting with an F and ending with an R. And, your next step will be to find out what you're afraid of, if you want to really have an impact on this area. As always, I believe that, the truth will set you free. You just have to distinguish it and then take action, whether that be communicating or otherwise.

By the way, this principle also applies to anywhere in life where you're not getting what you want. Examine the areas where you're not getting results and do the exercise above.

Dan Robertson has led seminars and coached hundreds of people in gaining more satisfaction and productivity in their lives. He is currently writing a series on commitment and dating, which will be released as an e-book and course in the near future. As a professional market researcher, he has conducted thousands of focus groups around the world dealing with people's perceptions, and has a degree in sociology.

Are you ready for a loving, committed relationship with the right guy? Are you confused by the signals your guy sends? Because of past relationships, are you hesitant to trust your feelings? Do you wonder if a committed relationship is in your future? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you can have a loving, committed, relationship and you can know if he is ready.

A loving, committed, relationship is every girl's desire; however, confusing signals, hurts from past relationships, or not trusting your feelings, can contribute to wondering if the guy you are dating is sincerely ready for a relationship. Following are ways to know he is ready for a loving, committed relationship.

Intimate details: No, not does he share with the guy's things he shouldn't, I mean, does he share his personal thoughts and feelings with you? A guy who is ready for a long term relationship will open up and share his thoughts, goals, and experiences. It may not be on the first date, but over time you will begin to see what he is all about. Guys who are in it for "fun" will not be as willing to share their feelings.

Long range plans: A guy who is interested in a relationship will not only plan, but commit to long terms engagements. It may be dinner with friends coming to town for a visit, a social event several months away, or meeting someone at the beach for a weekend get-a-way. If he is seeking long term, he will not be afraid to commit weeks, or even months in advance.

Meet the family: This is a huge test for a relationship. Meeting parents and family is stressful. A guy who is ready for a relationship will do a couple of things. First, he will put his best foot forward for the occasion. Not necessarily coat and tie, but nice slacks and shirt, he will dress to impress. Second, he will take time to ask questions about your family. Are there topics he should avoid, or does your family have certain beliefs he needs to respect. He will do everything he can to make the evening enjoyable for you, your family, and lastly himself.

These are just a few ways to know a guy is ready for long term. When he is ready, he will discuss his life with you and make you feel a part of it. He will make long term plans that include you and he will be willing to meet family and friends. You can have a loving, committed, relationship, and you can know if he is ready.

To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

When it comes to women and relationships, in the beginning, most men think they want to "Have their cake, and eat it too".

No need to explain what I mean by this, because I'm sure you intuitively get what I'm talking about, and you may have experienced this with a man.

But... This is not the case with every single man that a woman meets.

Every once in awhile, a man will meet a woman and know very quickly - without a doubt - that he wants to be with her and only her. I'm talking about the situation where a man knows he wants to be with one woman because it feels right on a deep emotional level.

When this happens, the man will usually be the one to push for a long-term commitment.

And you won't have to do anything but keep being the great partner that you are, and help him with the things he wants to do, to keep you both close and together.

Sometimes though for some strange reason, the guys you don't want seem to always be pursuing you for more.

Maybe this has happened to you before... But you don't exactly know how or why it happened... Or more importantly, how to repeat it with a guy you really want...

Strange how that works, isn't it?

Your goal is getting a guy that you want, to want to be more and more committed with you!

A woman that truly captures a man's heart will:

Make a man feel, through experience, that he's better off being with you rather than being single, spending most of his time with his friends, or "sleeping around".

And...

Show a man, on a physical and emotional level, that he's better off being with you rather than any other woman he could possibly meet.

Probably not your favorite thing to hear, but most men are "designed" by nature to be able to sleep with a lot of women. Men have a "drive" that's part of their long time role in nature.

Of course, this is not the way most women were designed...

In order for you to make a man feel that he is better off being with you rather than living the "single life" and going around and sleeping with a lot of women... Or focusing obsessively on his career. You need to remind him of the benefits that a deep, connected, loving relationship brings... And unlock those hidden feelings inside of him.

Fortunately it's easy to do - especially when he already has feelings of attraction for you. You can turn those feelings of attraction into feelings of intimacy and passion.

So few women know how to help a man get in touch with this side of himself - the part of himself that all men secretly long to share - when you are the one that helps him to do it, he will automatically start experiencing a deep connection with you and want to keep it alive and growing.

This is not something you can do just by talking about it. The key is to actually get him to experience those feelings when he's around you.

The reality here is that a guy will not willfully commit to you unless you flip this "switch". And no amount of pleading, begging, withholding, etc. Will work.

When you do flip this switch and trigger these thoughts... He will be the one asking you to commit... Every time.

If a relationship isn't growing, it's usually dying... And perhaps the most important thing you need to know is to continue to strengthen the bond between you and your man,... Keep that fire of intimacy burning forever.

Every one of us dreams of one day experiencing that "storybook" romance with that special person we are meant to share our lives with...

We think about how wonderful it will feel to finally be with that person... Look into their eyes... And know that we've found the love and connection we've been searching for.

For further, more in depth information and tips on this subject, please visit the link below...

[http://datinghelp101.info/]

I am sure you will agree that the information provided at the link above is very enlightening!

Thanks, Ken

Are you ready for a loving, committed relationship with the right guy? Are you confused by the signals your guy sends? Because of past relationships, are you hesitant to trust your feelings? Do you wonder if a committed relationship is in your future? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you can have a loving, committed, relationship and you can know if he is ready.

A loving, committed, relationship is every girl's desire; however, confusing signals, hurts from past relationships, or not trusting your feelings, can contribute to wondering if the guy you are dating is sincerely ready for a relationship. Following are ways to know he is ready for a loving, committed relationship.

Intimate details: No, not does he share with the guy's things he shouldn't, I mean, does he share his personal thoughts and feelings with you? A guy who is ready for a long term relationship will open up and share his thoughts, goals, and experiences. It may not be on the first date, but over time you will begin to see what he is all about. Guys who are in it for "fun" will not be as willing to share their feelings.

Long range plans: A guy who is interested in a relationship will not only plan, but commit to long terms engagements. It may be dinner with friends coming to town for a visit, a social event several months away, or meeting someone at the beach for a weekend get-a-way. If he is seeking long term, he will not be afraid to commit weeks, or even months in advance.

Meet the family: This is a huge test for a relationship. Meeting parents and family is stressful. A guy who is ready for a relationship will do a couple of things. First, he will put his best foot forward for the occasion. Not necessarily coat and tie, but nice slacks and shirt, he will dress to impress. Second, he will take time to ask questions about your family. Are there topics he should avoid, or does your family have certain beliefs he needs to respect. He will do everything he can to make the evening enjoyable for you, your family, and lastly himself.

These are just a few ways to know a guy is ready for long term. When he is ready, he will discuss his life with you and make you feel a part of it. He will make long term plans that include you and he will be willing to meet family and friends. You can have a loving, committed, relationship, and you can know if he is ready.

To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.