Would you like to enjoy peace and harmony in dating relationships while you seek the great love of your life? Learn how to attract new love and create a happy relationship by using 3 Ancient Chinese Secrets.

What is Dating Feng Shui?

It is my term for using ancient energetic strategies to enhance joy in your dating relationships and free your blocks to love.

How does this differ from traditional practice?

Many people think the 5000 year old Chinese art is all about eliminating clutter and placing things in your home in ways that promote feelings of harmony and peace.

In the book, "Feng Shui: So Easy A Child Can Do It", author Pat Heydlauff tells us that it is a guide to creating a lifestyle that is free of stress and filled with joy and peace. Heydlauff says there is no religious element in the practice, so it won't conflict with your religious beliefs.

If you'd like to know how Heydlauff recommends that you use this practice to create positive energy in your home and lifestyle, you may want to read her book. I've adapted several strategies to give you yet another tool to create the love life you desire when you use these tools:

Three Secrets Of Dating Feng Shui:

1. Remove the clutter from your heart so that you are free to energize your dream of love. How?

Identify the sad old stories that keep you stuck in the past. Now let go of them. Send them into the universe like helium balloons at a birthday party. Your heart experiences an energetic rebirth of strength and joy when it is not constricted by old energy of sadness, regret or negativity. Will you let your heart beat with renewed passion and love?

2. Once you've uncluttered your heart from old negativity, you want to focus your energy on love to attract more love into your life.

Notice all the faces of love in your life--friends, family, pets--and give thanks for them. Stay connected to love in all forms, including your religious beliefs and spiritual bonds. Notice your own face of love. Fall in love with yourself again, by revving up your loving qualities and sharing them. Healthy self love attracts love like a love magnet.

3. While you let your heart beat in love and gratitude, do some Feng Shui on your thinking. Un-clutter your mind from negative self talk and limiting beliefs. How?

Make a list of negative thoughts that block you from fulfilling your dream of romance and love. Then delete them. Place a stop sign in your mind any time you're tempted to focus on those negative thoughts or fears.

Now replace those negatives with positive thinking and actions which help you realize your dream of romance and love. Do this each day for 30 days to form a new habit that helps you attract love and create a happy relationship.

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I set a goal this August to clean my closets and garage. This was a daunting task, one I had been putting off for years. My closet had been stuffed to its max with clothes from a different era. An era in which I was not only much thinner, but one in which I spent time going out on weekends in my search for love. In addition to mini skirts and expensive halter tops circa 2005, there were splatter paint jeans, pink corduroys and pairs of jeans that were worn so long they had ripped in the one corner of the back left pocket; the sign they have been worn too long. I also rummaged through the dirtied, cluttered drawers in my bathroom filled with Smashbox, Stila and Mac makeup from the late 90's, dozens of tiny tubes that contained stale perfume samples, and at least ten pounds of half-used bottles of hair product. The clutter didn't stop there. My garage was also a disaster, as it had been storing relics from an era of parenthood that had long passed. I had toddler toys, clothes, puzzles, chew toys, enough books to begin a library, and two strollers. As my children are almost 14, 11 and 7, it was time to remove these items from my house. I needed to create space.

Space.

Which is, according to my research, experience and Laws of the Universe, the secret to attracting lasting love. One of the first steps in the Dating With Dignity process to MANifest love is what I call The Dating Fast, a pre-determined period of time which requires that one completely stops all forms of activity directly involved with the pursuit of a relationship. Some women call it "space," some a "cleans," while others just all it horrid. They simply don't want to do it.

Online daters admit that the act of checking email, reviewing profiles of prospective partners, composing emails, and instant message flirtation provides them with hope. Others crave the little crumbs of validation that come in the form of winks, smiles or requests to video chat. Other women claim it is entertainment that effectively fills a void when they are home alone, susceptible to feelings of loneliness.

Some women prefer speed dating, or going to bars or restaurants with the goal of meeting someone who might ask for their phone number. Once again, there are expectations and often disappointments. If things go well and numbers are exchanged, however, only tidbits of attention are doled out, often haphazardly, via circular text messages that rarely lead to an invitation to more than "meeting up." "hanging out," or "getting together...sometime." Most important, most of these interactions are with the wrong men; men with whom these women truly don't even want to build a relationship.

Nevertheless, the believe, "something... is better than nothing." Yet, if one is truly looking for lasting love with a man who will provide the time, attention, and affection they deserve, is it truly better to accept less?

I think not.

In fact, what ultimately happens in this no-win cycle is that harmful limiting beliefs are perpetuated. As women engage in this cycle they are fed a steady diet of "proof" that their beliefs such as "there are no good men out there," "men just want sex," "men don't get it," "men don't call back," are true. The result? Women are at risk of consciously or unconsciously bringing their beliefs and the resultant negative energy into each interaction, sabotaging the exchanges they have with men, resulting in frustration, cynicism and gloom.

The Dating Fast puts a quick stop to this vicious cycle, allowing women to take pause. Clean their emotional closets. Do the work. Toss their past hurts and disappointments in a Hefty Bag and take them out of the garage that has become their broken hearts. Quite simply, The Dating Fast provides women an opportunity to get rid of negative thoughts, limiting beliefs and baggage from another era of their lives. Their pink corduroy pants and Smashbox eyeshadow whose name may have been John, Michael, or Dave.

The Dating Fast is not easy. In fact, emotions will most assuredly bubble to the surface when the computer beckons and you must refuse. During those evenings when there is nothing on TV and you have watched your favorite episodes of "That 70s Show" too many times to count, be sure you will question what it is you truly want. Are you willing to settle for just "anything," or are you willing to search inward? Take time to nurture yourself. Create new opportunities for friendships. Take up hiking. Investigate yoga. Go wine tasting. Or take a cooking class. Not with the intention to meet men, but with an intention to fill the void in your heart. The Dating Fast provides opportunities to create joy; new, deeper connections to friends and family; and time to appreciate the quiet and solace of being with, and falling in love with yourself.

You may have read, give life coaching books on dating rules or techniques increase the interest of the opposite sex.

I propose quite apart from complicated rules and the focus on development themselves as a way to attract love and deep, create meaningful relationships.

Self-recognition

There is something very attractive about people who have to know the self-recognition, what works for them in a relationship and what is not. Such people bring focus, clarity and simple messages to their interactions, qualities that are establishing a balanced relationship essential.

If you self-conscious are, you are empowered, actively manifest things, you look and also choose to decline, to track interactions that fit not meet your needs.

Love and relationship as a high priority in life

As many of you have a person from the where it was clear that his priority on everything else, but on developing a relationship with you? If you want to manifest love, ensures a space create in your busy life at the time with that special person a priority make.

Appreciate this special person from the effort dates plan, which leaves plenty of time to the relax and interaction, in contrast to try, a date between a variety of other activities in squeeze.

Authentic happiness

There is nothing quite so charismatic as a person who induces a life which has created joy and satisfaction. A such approaches love as an extension to the whole place look, others to heal old wounds or a feeling the conclusion itself.

So, make sure that you develop to satisfy interests and friendships that as a single person. Then your natural joy are abundant and clear, and a magnet for attracting love.

Self confidence

If you feel good about yourself, it creates a kind of high vibration and light that many people experienced, so sexy and attractive.

Growth strategy

There is something very interesting and attractive about a person who ever developed. It keeps life interesting and prevents boredom in the relationship.

Even if we are really committed to growth and learning, we approach tend to communicate with a commitment hearing and honestly share. To tend to it less static and more harmony in interactions.

Contact Kay Hutchinson, CAMQ, CAMT today for a consultation to build self-esteem and confidence to attract love. http://www.aikihealing.com

Kay Hutchinson is a practitioner of Chinese medicine, energetic life coach and teacher of Qi Gong movement. She is the founder of Aiki healing, a private practice in Austin, Texas, and the editor of the "health prosperity" devoted a blog for people to manifest, optimal health and wellness.

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Women these days love to call the shots, and there is really no harm in doing that. However, you need first to be successful with most of the men you go out with. You not only want to go out on a date and make it successful, but you also want your date to fulfill all that you have been fantasizing about him ever since you laid eyes on him. Here are a few dating relationship tips that will surely get him attracted towards you and don't be surprised if you get much more than you had hoped for.

Hike: Men love adventure, and you need to give them a bit of an adventure, so that they get adventurous with you. Take him hiking or just cycling into the nearby woods. Show him the wonderful sights from the top of a hill. If you have a secret hideout, take him there and show it off to him. He will love you for it and very soon he will be hiking all over you. Enjoy the thrill with this brilliant dating relationship tip for women.

Movies: If you are scared of watching horror movies, here is an opportunity for you to explore an all time favorite dating relationship tip. Book tickets for a horror movie and act brave, telling him you can handle gory scenes. Only you know the true secret behind this. Cling onto him when the horror part begins. See the sparks flying as he tries to cover you from all the horror scenes. Don't forget to kiss him for protecting you from horror at the end of the movie.

Dinner: Men love to be fed and this is a fact. Take advantage of this male weakness. This is a never failing dating relationship tip for women. Invite him over for some wine and a wonderful dinner cooked by you. If you're not into cooking, order the food, but make sure you serve them using proper plates rather than eat out of boxes. If its winter, sits in front of the fireplace - eat, drink and enjoy each other's company. Very soon the wine will start working on him and he will be putty in your fingers. Enjoy your date; you've worked hard for it!

Perfume: This is probably the most experimented dating relationship tip that women have resorted to. However success with this one lies in precision planning. Ask your man about his favorite perfume or get clues from his friends. Wear it out on your date and entice him with this. You will be surprised at how perfumes can lure a man into fulfilling all your fantasies.

It is a fact that some women do find it difficult to lure a man into fulfilling all her fantasies about him. These few dating relationship tips will surely find them success. For more information, visit http://www.dating-relationship-tips.com or better still learn about how men think and act in dating relationship and be successful in attracting the only the right men.

Women these days love to call the shots, and there is really no harm in doing that. However, you need first to be successful with most of the men you go out with. You not only want to go out on a date and make it successful, but you also want your date to fulfill all that you have been fantasizing about him ever since you laid eyes on him. Here are a few dating relationship tips that will surely get him attracted towards you and don't be surprised if you get much more than you had hoped for.

Hike: Men love adventure, and you need to give them a bit of an adventure, so that they get adventurous with you. Take him hiking or just cycling into the nearby woods. Show him the wonderful sights from the top of a hill. If you have a secret hideout, take him there and show it off to him. He will love you for it and very soon he will be hiking all over you. Enjoy the thrill with this brilliant dating relationship tip for women.

Movies: If you are scared of watching horror movies, here is an opportunity for you to explore an all time favorite dating relationship tip. Book tickets for a horror movie and act brave, telling him you can handle gory scenes. Only you know the true secret behind this. Cling onto him when the horror part begins. See the sparks flying as he tries to cover you from all the horror scenes. Don't forget to kiss him for protecting you from horror at the end of the movie.

Dinner: Men love to be fed and this is a fact. Take advantage of this male weakness. This is a never failing dating relationship tip for women. Invite him over for some wine and a wonderful dinner cooked by you. If you're not into cooking, order the food, but make sure you serve them using proper plates rather than eat out of boxes. If its winter, sits in front of the fireplace - eat, drink and enjoy each other's company. Very soon the wine will start working on him and he will be putty in your fingers. Enjoy your date; you've worked hard for it!

Perfume: This is probably the most experimented dating relationship tip that women have resorted to. However success with this one lies in precision planning. Ask your man about his favorite perfume or get clues from his friends. Wear it out on your date and entice him with this. You will be surprised at how perfumes can lure a man into fulfilling all your fantasies.

It is a fact that some women do find it difficult to lure a man into fulfilling all her fantasies about him. These few dating relationship tips will surely find them success. For more information, visit http://www.dating-relationship-tips.com or better still learn about how men think and act in dating relationship and be successful in attracting the only the right men.