Friday, September 6, 2013

Don't Break a Lovely Relationship With Your Ego


Healthy and sweet relationship is the nectar that all of us aspire at the end of the day. Really, the conjugal relationship is expected to be full of merriment and meaningful for every couple. If we look around, we find that the people surrounding us also need some kind of support with better attitude and lively connections with each other to make this wonderful world, a place for enjoyment and happiness. This is one face of the relationship value, but there is an opposite side as well. And, it pains to say so that a lovely and positive relationship turns sour mostly on trivial grounds. The sudden change in the environment makes us feel that, it is not roses all along, but thorns are there in the way. We call it the truth because we suffer from the agony.

To my mind, a relationship turns weary due to one feature, which is present in most of us with the difference in the degree of intensity. The culprit in our character is ego. Best friends turn enemies when the ego takes the drivers seat and rules our minds. The bondage of friendship in a marital relationship is smashed cruelly, when one of them plays slave in the hands of ego. We must learn to improve our nature of thinking and find out a common platform to avoid individual sufferings.

We can make the world better and keep our relationship intact, if we allow some space for the other person in our lives. In all spheres of our contacts such as in conjugal life, friendship or in workplaces, if you leave a little room for the other partner to have his or her say, we can create a better world for us to live in. Let us not give too much importance to the power of individual ego, which never bears any positive result.




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Love From Friendship


Friendship is a special bond that often blooms into a romantic relationship with the opposite sex. It does not happen always but when it happens it is a sensitive situation. You need to take care in this situation.

Know his heart before you own it

Friendship helps you know him even before you make him your own. Remember that although he is so like you, he is not. He may have his own point of view and respecting each others' viewpoint is the best way to become more intimate.

Compromise is a strict no no!

Respecting his viewpoint does not mean compromising on your own beliefs. Do not compromise your own principles to please him. Remember this relationship is worth a lifetime. So love him only if he deserves you. A strong personality and determined attitude is what presents a woman in the right light. Men definitely prefer sensible women.

Now that you know him and you feel he really is the Mr. Right you have been looking for, here are couple of tips to make him think on the same lines about you too!

Look your best when he is around

To make him fall in love, dazzle him with your looks. It is a fact that in spite of all the technological advancement in the world, men still fall for women with attractive looks. On the opposite, women fall for men with attractive personality. An attractive personality with the right dressing sense makes every man's head turn. Your dressing style tells a lot about your persona and how you are feeling. So express yourself, make him know that you are beautiful inside out and see him go crazy about you.

Know the shortcut

Emotions are the shortcut to his heart. Be there when he needs you. As you both are friends, he may seek emotional support from you. Add a little more depth to this without transgressing your friendship, if you are still not sure about his feelings for you. This emotional intimacy with you may spark the love and is surely a signal that he has developed a special liking for you. It will not take too long for him to propose to you.

Don't get disheartened

Even after the emotional intimacy, he may still not show any keenness for your friendship to mature into a romantic one. Be patient sooner or later he will understand and accept you. Remember Rome was not built in a day.

Wishing you all the best in making your friend, a partner for life!




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